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  1. FallenAngelina

    Needing help to be ok with open relationship

    Absolutely. Plenty of women in their 60s date and remarry. It's never too late to start being happy.
  2. FallenAngelina

    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    Really? Why? If you were so conflicted (which clearly you were) then of course you attracted loads of women who were also conflicted, or at very least, fearful with intimacy. You were a magnet for women who struggled with intimacy and blamed it on "no men want to commit." Complaining about...
  3. FallenAngelina

    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    In addition to the point that this is a choir community, is your POV really the way the world works? Most people don't vibe with your choice of carpet, so your POV is not really the way the world works. Now what? You're going to set about trying to prove that your carpet choice is the right...
  4. FallenAngelina

    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    A lot of people say a lot of things. They're going to say those things no matter what you do, no matter how much research you find that proves them wrong. And a lot of women say a lot of things. You're never going to "help" them by showing them research that proves poly is natural. Instead...
  5. FallenAngelina

    The Adopted Thread

    Same, same, same! When i found my birth mother, I asked about my real birth story and of course it was so different. I was literally ripped from her arms on the birthing table and then cared for by various people until my adoptive parents picked me out from that row of cots (had to laugh -...
  6. FallenAngelina

    The Adopted Thread

    That I'm adopted was never a secret. My "birth" story was always that my parents had picked me out.
  7. FallenAngelina

    The Adopted Thread

    If you hadn't guessed by now, I'm radically against the whole premise of closed adoption and I have my doubts about the success of adoption in general, so if you're upset by my experience of it, don't read what I have to say. It's nothing unusual if you go on adult adoptee forums, but if you're...
  8. FallenAngelina

    The Adopted Thread

    I'm adopted. Closed adoption in 1961. I know that it messed me up. I've never known a world without massive loss and trauma. It's a tremendously impactful way to begin life and remains largely under-studied and misunderstood. The state of California still does not allow adult adoptees to...
  9. FallenAngelina

    Coming out as polyamorous is hard

    Psychology Today usually is. It's the Snapchat of waiting room magazines.
  10. FallenAngelina

    LDR Poly during COVID

    What does this mean? I don't think we use this expression in The States.
  11. FallenAngelina

    The benefits of polyamory

    This works well with stuffed animals, too.
  12. FallenAngelina

    Coming out as polyamorous is hard

    GOOD GRIEF :rolleyes:
  13. FallenAngelina

    The benefits of polyamory

    I'm interested to know how much experience you've had with poly break ups because from what I know, poly break ups are just as painful as mono break ups. Losing someone you love is painful. Do you have experience with this "plenty more" shield or are you just hoping that this will be the case?
  14. FallenAngelina

    Royal Marriages, Titles, Inheritance, Affairs, etc.

    Hey, I'm American and to me, a queen is a queen consort is a whatever. She's recognized as the life partner of his heart and all that struggle to match him up with someone more "suitable" just led to utter disaster. The entire western world has changed in the last short few decades and now...
  15. FallenAngelina

    Royal Marriages, Titles, Inheritance, Affairs, etc.

    Given his age and your presumptive age (and mine!) I would grandfather this into the "acceptable discreet liaison" category. It is perhaps difficult for younger people to imagine a time when pretty much all long term married couples did not have divorce as a viable option and instead tacitly...
  16. FallenAngelina

    In new/old situation....

    Given his age and your presumptive age (and mine!) I would grandfather this into the "acceptable discreet liaison" category. It is perhaps difficult for younger people to imagine a time when pretty much all long term married couples did not have divorce as a viable option and instead tacitly...
  17. FallenAngelina

    Is this really what I'm looking for... or?

    FFS! I'm glad that you were banned.
  18. FallenAngelina

    In the garden

    I missed this episode but just want to say how very valued you are, Evie. I always appreciate your contributions to the discussions.
  19. FallenAngelina

    Exploring polyamory

    This is nuts. I'm curious how old you are.
  20. FallenAngelina

    Any advice for a single guy

    Correct. It turns out to be a myth that women's periods automatically synch up. https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/06/well/the-myth-of-period-syncing.html **************************************************************** Short Take There is no science to support the claim that menstrual cycles...
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