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Both Mag and Vin are correct and this is how this forum works. Which is what we NEED. We don't need bull. At the end of the day you will take away what you want from this thread and make your choices and thats OK. If you are sincerely looking for advice here, you will find it. Everyone...

Oh it worked out beautifully. I wasn't worried about my date freaking out :) I'm a pretty good judge of people lately and I get the I have three kids thing out of the way very early on. If he or anyone has a less than understanding and pleasant response to my motherhood then they get cut...

What would happen if I had a big deal event happening like the guy I'm having dates with meeting my husband for the first time? Puking children. Two of them. Well, at least I don't have to finish whiping all the toothpatse and crayons off the bathroom cabinet.

I'm new too, but it looks like you and hubby have some things to work out before trying to adder partners. If you lay out the issues, you'll probably get good advice.

you know your poly when... your husband texts you emoji configurations of your relationships :p

I keep discovering rogue banana peels and solo shoes! I swear I clean my house more often than this! :p

I imagine that moment was quite delicious. I can't wait for one equally so.

The guy I've been going on dates with is going to pick me up for a date from my home Saturday. He's going to come in and have a drink with Dean. This guy has no kids, I have three, my house is a kid house. For the past couple days I've been trying to "adult" my house a bit more, like I would...

The guy I've been going on dates with is going to pick me up for a date from my home Saturday. He's going to come in and have a drink with Dean. This guy has no kids, I have three, my house is a kid house. For the past couple days I've been trying to "adult" my house a bit more, like I would...

You're lesbian girlfriend is dating the straight father your child and you (poly,bi,pregnant) are left with what exactly?

In most states in the US it is customary to test the mother for STI's during each pregnancy. Just for your own knowledge.

I've experienced the same thing with my children as far as baby talk. We talk to them like adults taken into consideration their developmental stage. It's worked out very well. I have petite children who use big words and create complex sentences. These tiny people sharing complex ideas is...

Are your parents people you could talk to? If you have stable older adults in your real life that you trust please go to them for support. We can only help so much and we all care to see you well.

I do have three girls, all under 9. and thanks, I don't use those words out loud a lot I guess so I wasn't sure

You know you're poly when... you find yourself unable to tell stories using pro-nouns because your friends do not know "s/he" is.

I've been wondering this same question. So far I've come out to a couple friends and any new ones I make. I can't see ever coming out to family except for my dad. I could see having thanksgiving with him with him knowing that I've brought more than one partner. I could bring the same more than...

These are the things that worry me. Being poly doesn't mean pretending you aren't in a relationship. Just because you said yes doest mean you can't say no. Let this sink in. You can be in the middle of sex and decide to stop, you say no, you get up and leave. It's ok. It is so ok. Safe sex...

I wanted to post an update. The bump in the road thread sums up a lot of stuff, but wait there's more! After 4 days I reactivated my dating profile. Mostly because this specific site uses questions to create a match% and much like my personal summary I answered those questions 6 wish years...

These are great thoughts. I'd love to hear more. To answer myself I would hit on many of the same items. When I was pregnant with my first child I didn't have a village. My parents and extended family are full of influences I didn't want her to have. I sought out my village and I think I've...