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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:01 p.m., Thursday the 7th SB said that Ginger did a good job at her class. Today, Eddie is getting a haircut, SB will pick him up later. For dinner yesterday, SB made us a dish from a New Mexican cookbook she has, the dish is a kind of casserole, similar in structure to a lasagna, but in...
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    The Best Advice You've Been Given?

    Hi Gardener9, As it turns out, oftentimes the best advice we receive, is advice we give to others. We speak from our own experience, and that advice reflects back on that experience. For me, the one that stands out right away, is that jealousy can often be dissolved by advocating for our own...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    1:46 p.m., Wednesday the 6th Ginger had a Rally class last night, so SB took her to that, then picked up the pizza on the way home. We all had cake for dessert. BH enjoyed his evening, he ate dinner in the TV room and watched a hockey game. This is all I have to tell you for now.
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    Passing Off (Remaining Lovers Forever)

    Seems to me the whole point of polyamory is you don't have to break up with one lover in order to take up with another lover. The Pass, as polyamory457 calls it, sounds more like serial monogamy, to me, than it does polyamory. There's just a one-time setup where there's three people, and even...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:30 p.m., Tuesday the 5th It seems like SB might be feeling better today, I haven't asked, but my fingers are crossed. Last night she cooked up some tortellini and sauce, also there was parmesan to sprinkle on top. Today is BH's birthday, SB bought a cake for him a few hours ago. For dinner...
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    Hello from Minnesota the North Star State! Winter sucks up here!!

    Greetings Martmak, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. I lived in Michigan for about 20 years, I remember too well the extreme frigid winters. It sounds like you are ready to start some new relationships in your life, I hope Polyamory.com can help. Sincerely, Kevin T...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    1:33 p.m., Monday the 4th SB went with BH to a softball game yesterday, I think they ate before they left, after they got back SB heated up some leftover stir-fry for me. This was suitable for me, I got caught up on all my stuff while they were away. Today, SB has come down with some kind of...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    1:38 p.m., Sunday the 3rd We met up with Eponine and John at the escape room, it was fairly difficult but we managed to solve it. After that, we ate at a Mexican seafood place, Lindo Mexico I think it was called. After that, we met here at our house and played a couple of games, Telestrations...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    10:33 a.m., Saturday the 2nd Rather than leftovers, we actually had hot dogs, and baked beans. Kind of a nice surprise. We might eat out tonight, I don't know. I got up earlier than usual today, and feel somewhat off, maybe a slight headache. I might lie down for a spell. This concludes my riport.
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    Need advice how how to balance this life/relationship

    Hello leeuwerik, Sometimes one can be jealous for good reasons, like if one is being treated poorly. In your case, your husband is withholding one-on-one cuddling from you, and he is treating you like a doormat. With his male friend around, I don't know if you are getting the privacy you need...
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    From 0-100 in 3 weeks

    Sorry to hear about that. I don't know if divorce is now on the table, or if that is lurking later on down the line. It sounds like she is monkey-branching, using poly as an excuse to grab one branch (Leo) before letting go of the other (you). I hope she'll at least be a decent coparent, and...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    3:03 p.m., Friday the 1st SB made us a stir-fry, with veggies, chicken, and fine noodles. She thought it turned out rather bland, I had the idea of adding soy sauce to mine, she seemed to have mixed feelings about that. She said we'd have leftovers today. Tomorrow, we will meet up with Eponine...
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    Sudden changes in agreements - leading to an ultimatum

    It hurts to have to consider the end of a relationship, however he is obviously deeply unhappy with the situation, and is taking it out on you. I don't know when your next therapy appointment is, but when you get to that point, I suggest you put it all on the table. Don't try to play nice. The...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    2:13 p.m., Thursday the 30th SB made us a pork roast in the slow cooker, with a peach barbecue sauce she got while visiting her mom recently. She also made waffle fries in the oven, and veggies on the stovetop. I'm not sure what we'll have tonight. This concludes my riport.
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    Greetings from Alabama

    Greetings Nate4thewin99, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. You should be able to make connections here, both from Alabama and from around the world. Have a look around at our various threads and boards, and let us know if you have any questions. Glad to have you...
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    1:33 p.m., Wednesday the 29th SB said that Eddie did a good job yesterday at class. This next Tuesday, it will be Ginger's turn to go to class. Yesterday, BH took Ginger on a walk, so that was a consolation for her. Not much else to tell you at this time.
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    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    5:58 p.m., Tuesday the 28th Yesterday, SB made a bean soup for us, it had ham, carrots, celery, onions, garlic, and a few more seasonings. Today, just a few minutes ago, SB left to take Eddie to a Rally class. We'll have dinner when she gets back, probably around 7:30 p.m., she said she'd heat...
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    Monog husband, recently polybombed by wife--Seeking advice

    Hello RecentlyPolybombed, Polyamory has hit you like a tornado, and your wife has been less than honest with you. Rewriting the relationship agreement might be the thing to do, although I also wonder if you should just consider it null and void as you were misled and circumstances have changed...
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    Advice about red flags in a very specific poly situation

    Hello ZippyZappyYeah, It is hard to get poly advice from a monogamous friend, usually they just assume that polyamory itself is the problem. I think you are making the right move, by coming to Polyamory.com for advice. Cheating certainly happens a lot, largely because polyamory is a forbidden...
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    LoveTriad.org

    It sounds like your website will encourage people to try new things. I like the layout, and hope many people will be encouraged to visit.
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