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I have now visited your website, it presents some interesting possibilities. I live in a Fall House -- Young Yin. Although I wouldn't call it a triad because the two men are not romantically involved with each other. Rather, the common term for it is a V. Anyway, I hope you get many visitors...

2:37 p.m., Monday the 27th Well as it turns out, Stan came over yesterday, for dinner and a visit. It was a cool surprise. As for dinner, the veggies were a side dish, the main course was flounders which SB cooked in the oven, with lemon slices, onion slices, and seasonings. Also there was rice...

Hello Fred, It's one thing if there can be exceptions to a rule about no past lovers, however this particular past lover does not seem to be a good candidate for an exception. My biggest concern is that she does not seem to be cut out for polyamory, she has a record of cheating and more...

Naturally, this is an adjustment. You are used to a two-party dynamic, where you and your wife put your heads together to solve problems as a team. Now you have a three-party dynamic, and the rules have changed. It may be that your wife will need you to be a listening ear, not to try to help her...

You'll know when the time is right.

1:25 p.m., Sunday the 26th They actually got home at a little after ten. Today, SB is cooking some seasoned veggies in the slow cooker. I assume she's going to add some meat later, perhaps fish, but that's just guesswork on my part. Not much else going on today.

I think having the convo is something you really want to do. You are always going to wonder how it would have gone if you had spoken up. Plus there is the principle of honesty in a relationship, you don't want to keep secrets from your partner, especially about something this big. Sooner or...

2:46 p.m., Saturday the 25th The stir-fry was good, it was veggies and shrimp. Today, a little while ago, BH and SB left to drive to a concert, the Red Elvises I think. It will take them a couple of hours to get there, and SB said they probably wouldn't get back until midnight. I will fix my...

Hello powerful respect, It sounds like you have had somewhat of a whirlwind romance, you said you and he first started talking in January, of this year I presume, and now you've been married for two months. I just mean, maybe NRE got the best of you, and you wanted to marry him in spite of his...

Greetings Theexceptionalsensual, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. It sounds like you have taken a profound turn for the better, I hope Polyamory.com can be an outlet for you to express your sexual/sensual feelings. I'm sorry things went so badly with your ex...

2:59 p.m., Friday the 24th Last night for dinner we had spaghetti with chicken, sauce, and parmesan. Tonight SB is planning to make a stir-fry, also she has a microabrasion appointment at 5:00 p.m.

Hello Alcal0813, Are you sure you want to stay engaged to your fiancé? It sounds like he's more concerned with his own fetish, than he is with your feelings. I'm sorry that happened to you, you had two men disrespecting your feelings, this on top of the abuse you endured in the past. I don't...

I think it could.

2:01 p.m., Thursday the 23rd For dinner last night SB made us salmon, plus broccoli and brown rice. SB and I went grocery shopping at Smith's after dinner. I always like grocery shopping, I got some roasted deluxe mixed nuts which I am enjoying right now. This concludes my riport.

Hello Gardener9, I think the key thing here is just being there for your partner, whatever they may need. And they may just need space, to figure things out on their own. Don't begrudge them this space, every relationship is its own compartment and they may not want to mix compartments. You...

Hello Jada, You need to sit down with Dallas, and explain that you need some alone time with Cheyenne. While Dallas isn't intentionally creating the problem, you do need their help in figuring out the logistics for you. Sure you don't want anyone to feel obligated, but in relationships, there...

1:36 p.m., Wednesday the 22nd BH fixed his own dinner shortly after he got home from work, SB and I had ours after she got home with Ginger. She said Ginger was distracted at class, and kept putting her nose on the ground which I guess is a bad sign. SB will try again with her next week...

Hi Xatu, Thanks for updating us on your situation. It sounds like you are shifting away from a relationship with L, and shifting toward a relationship with E, although that transition is incomplete at the moment, and there are probably details to work out. Don't rush anything, take it one step...

3:18 p.m., Tuesday the 21st SB made us salads and turkeyburgers for dinner yesterday. Tonight, Ginger has a Rally class at 6:15 p.m., and we'll have TV dinners, probably after SB and Ginger get back, 7:30 p.m. or so. Not much else to tell you at this time.

Greetings Gardener9, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. That's awesome that you have had a positive experience in mono/poly so far. It sounds like you are considering poly for yourself, your wife has led the way. I look forward to your future posts on our various...