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1:49 p.m., Monday the 30th SB got home safe and sound; the three of us had takeout from Krung Thai; I had massaman curry. At first we had ordered delivery from a Mediterranean place, but Grubhub delivered it to the wrong place. SB said we won't be using Grubhub in the future.

Hello Loria44, You are not overreacting, he is definitely sharing too much without your permission. You can see that he is going to continue that behavior, so you have to decide if you can stand him doing that. It seems to me that his excuse about honesty/transparency is a bit disingenuous...

12:35 p.m., Sunday the 29th We just had TV dinners last night ... which was fine, I had two Amy's dinners, a veggie lasagna and a mattar paneer, my two favorites as TV dinners go. There was a hockey game on, but after it was over we watched two shows. First, a stand-up comedy routine, Josh...

12:42 p.m., Saturday the 28th BH said that Stan's work schedule has changed, and I guess Stan is working Saturdays now? and maybe he has Sundays off, I'm not sure I interpreted what BH said 100%. Anyway no road trips today, and dinner and a visit are undecided for tomorrow, BH has to pick up SB...

No prob.

Greetings Mike, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. It sounds like you are just getting started on your poly journey, there is so much to learn, dive in and explore our various threads and boards, and let us know whenever you have any questions. It's great to have you...

12:09 p.m., Friday the 27th BH and I had microwave burritos for dinner last night. A hockey game was on, the Seattle Kraken versus Tampa Bay Lightning. BH was a Philadelphia Flyers fan, but he has switched to the Kraken. After the game, he and I watched the first episode of Justified. It was...

Hi hetcurious19, The first sign is when you do not think you could be in love with multiple people. The second sign is when you don't want to be in love with multiple people. And the third sign is when you don't want your partner to be in love with anyone except you. These are the signs...

It's tough when someone is religious and conservative, I don't know how you convince them that poly is for some but not for others. They'll just have to see over time that poly does not damage your relationship with your fiancée.

2:01 p.m., Thursday the 26th We had lentil soup last night plus bread, it was good. Also, SB and I put jalapeño slices on our soup, BH didn't do that as he is sensitive to spicy foods. SB is on her way right now to South Carolina for her mother's 80th birthday. It's just me and BH at the house...

She sounds like a sweet person. I hope the two of you enjoy a healthy poly life together, if you have any questions let us know.

Greetings xtremelove, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. You are so lucky to have such a supportive fiancée, she gets polyamory and is willing to explore that path with you. I hope you make new friends here, and if some of those come out to be more than just...

Hi devil-rat20, I'm so sorry this has happened to you. It seems to me that she hasn't treated you very well, she hasn't appreciated your feelings, and has not been willing to stay on and try to work things out. Maybe you are better off without her? I'm sure it doesn't sound very good when I put...

Hi ethicallygrieving, I think I get that Andrew and Quinn aren't trying to treat you bad, they just don't understand the nature of grief and don't realize what you're going through. Hopefully over time they can get a better appreciation for that, and you won't have to feel guilty for them...

2:10 p.m., Wednesday the 25th Last night's dinner was pasta, (meatless?) meatballs, and some kind of creamy alfredo sauce with mushrooms. BH ate his in the TV room, as there was a hockey game on. SB ate hers at her workstation, as it wasn't quite time for her to get off of work. I ate mine at...

Hello coffeeandhorror, My current partner, Snowbunny, and I fell in love with each other back in 2005. Neither of us knew about polyamory and we were both married, so we didn't know what to do. She is a strong researcher, and so she went to work on finding out what we could do about our...

Greetings WildShroom, Welcome to our forum. It sounds like you need to strike a compromise between your two partners; if either of them gets as much of your time as she really wants, the other will get shortchanged. I'm afraid they'll both have to be a little disappointed in that area; you'll...

4:11 p.m., Tuesday the 24th We had veggie burgers for dinner last night, also cucumber salad (with onions, unsweetened yogurt, and dill I think). In a couple of days, SB will leave to visit her mom for a few days in South Carolina, it will be her mom's 80th birthday. I don't know, BH and I...

Hello ethicallygrieving, I think the key here, is to let Andrew and Quinn be there for you in your time of need. You will not be able to be there for them like you normally would, and I believe that they should understand that. And if you need some space, don't be ashamed to ask for it. You are...

Greetings hetcurious19, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. Poly is a combination of three things; first, the capacity to be in love with multiple people; second, the desire to be in love with multiple people; and third, the willingness to have one's partner be in love...