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Thank you for this! Any advice on how to work on this perception or do you think it's a dead end? This fear dynamic is what she grew up with and I can see us going into this dynamic as well and tried to addressed it. No success so far and i do not know what else to do beside trying to talk about...

So I am F as well. We started dating 10 years ago (GF was married back then and had previous history with non ethical romantic relationships. GF knows non ethical behaviour triggers me greatly and had recent lengthy conversation about how important it is to me to do things ethically when opening...

We have an agreement on "i should know before you start pursuing", she just thinks it would not apply to getting back together with an ex. I agree that this specific situation was not discussed, but for this and all the "might" and "maybe" would you agree that we would need to talk about them...

Meta's GF had a meltdown ( with very spot on remarks) when she found out that GF and meta are pursuing a relationship, went on dates and kissed before she was told anything (she was out of town at the time) - i know cuz we were sort of friends, we were considering KTP and i was there and did not...

Clarificarion: GF and meta started dating and kissed before meta's GF was told by meta about her wanting to pursue GF. Meta's GF was told soon after (few days). I was just saying that her not communicating and hiding things (e.g. when she's out for drinks, she tells me with whom and invites me...

I am the mono one and GF is new to poly. My meta is new to poly, as well. Communication is not great. (She rarely initiates and feels interrogated when I do.) I agreed to meta and was supportive, welcomed her, shared advice. Some time ago, GF shared that she would be fine without meta. (There...