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Another thing is I have no say basically in when I see shorty, he just texts when he feels like it and ignores me when he feels like it. He will only see me if he initiates, I've tried and every time I initiate he cancels or just pulls away and makes excuses. I still keep seeing me when he...

Response to Kevin and magdlyn thank you😍 Thanks for listening and replying, it means so much to me! They dont want a relationship because they dont want to build with me. I havent known bev for long and we see each other infrequently, he wanted a relationship but right away and only because he...

I'm dating 3 people, they are all just dating me because there is no other option better right now, they dont want to build, I have accepted this. I am not sure of what I want, and I care for them and they care for me so I keep seeing them, its casual sex/dating ig. They are boo, shorty and Bev...

I cant speak to my friends because they knew he would hurt me and dont want to hear about it any more. But my metamor had sex with a different man and then Marcus told me he was going to stop having sex with her, so I felt relaxed for minute, but remembered that he told me 2 or 3 times in the...

My friend network is good, but some how it never helps with the feeling of jealousy and abandonment. It's not the same to me as a romantic, intimate partner. Also I have been starting to date another man now and even though my partner who I was speaking of here, marcus, is treating me better and...

Thanks so much, he used to lie, now he is going to counseling and so am I, he is putting effort in to changing and telling the truth. This is amazing I didn’t think it would happen and I’m still trying to work on my jealousy because I can tell he really cares for me and treats me well. I wish I...

I'm glad you posted this, I'm mono but maybe a little poly?? I get bored in mono relationships and want variety but I'm really jealous so it's hard for me, I've been with a man for 14mos who has another "friend" he says both of us are nothing but he sleeps and cuddles with us, separately, does...

He would do it at first but then decided he didnt want to any more, I just am so jealous of his other partner having sex and then me being rejected the next day I dont even want to see him any more. I think he stopped after our sex got a little less exciting after doing it for a year. But I...

He had sex with his other partner on Sunday night, saw me on Monday and I told him I was sexually frustrated. He refused to have sex with me because I'm on my period. I literally cant get over this. I'm so hurt and he still refuses to have sex if it's the really blooody part of my period. He...

And I feel.guilty about it, it's not fair is it? I would prefer to just see him but he won't stop seeing her or if he is he wouldn't stop dating other women. He says he won't know how he feels until I do it, like he may not want to see me for a while or may want to take a break if I see anyone...

Not a troll, just confused, it's not only his penis, I care about him and like spending time with him, so does he. I dont think its actual polyamory but this seemed like a place to get support for someone dating multiple people. Recently I met a man and did oral sex, it was a one night thing...

Thanks for the great advice! He told me he had always been a cheater but he wants to be honest now. I want to trust him but he def is hard to trust, idk if someone can just stop cheating and lying when they have been doing it all their lives, she knows he lies and just let's him get away with...

He tells us both he didn't want us to compete against each other, he arranges times for us to all sit down together and talk about our feelings. He claims to do that in Hope's that we each wont feel less or like we aren't enough for him when he is with the other. He says he wants to have a...

Yes, I want him to prove he cares about me, good insight galagirl

Response, thanks for your help everyone! They got closer when he started seeing me, he was about to break up with me, he told her he would but he didn’t, he kept seeing me, mostly for sex behind her back and I knew it and went along because I recently broke up with a fifteen yr mono...

Thanks, everyone has been really helpful. I didn't mean to post three different threads, I meant to do two but yeah I was just really needing support so I wrote more hoping for responses. I ask him about when a d how much he has sex with her. So I should probably stop that. I tend to dwell on...

Thanks everyone, he was with her for three yrs, with me for eight months, I already knew about her, they first wanted me to be the unicorn but I researched all that stuff and they realized it was not ok how they tried to make me conform to a certain relationship and not let it naturally grow...

Same day sex Thanks everyone, he was with her for three yrs, with me for eight months, I already knew about her, they first wanted me to be the unicorn but I researched all that stuff and they realized it was not ok how they tried to make me conform to a certain relationship and not let it...

Thanks, just the reply is so helpful, that's a good idea

Sex first I feel like I'm more monogomous but I'm with a man who is dating another woman and has sex with whoever he wants, can anyone help mr deal with the pain I feel that he chose her to drop him off and pick him up at the airport and I'm really upset I have to be second. I can't see him...