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This is definitely an excellent point. I found that even talking about my partner's new partner added to my feelings of jealously/envy. This is a conundrum I experience often. We were best friends before starting to date. We used to tell each other everything! That has changed, but it's ok...

I am in no way "experienced" in poly, I've only been in my first poly relationship for 17 months. But, I can think of a suggestion that would maybe be an easier platform to try. I think it makes sense to try having a threesome first, with another woman. Someone you guys to come onto together...

Astirarose, Hello.....I am, also, new, so NO judgments coming from me!!! These little intricacies of poly living seem like unimportant things, but in the grand scheme, they are worth more than their weight in gold. Example, My husband and I (together for 8 years), have been dating our gf for...

This is the worst feeling. I know firsthand how VALID feelings can become distorted as your mind swirls. A great way to combat that is to sit down, get a pen and paper, and start to journal. How do you feel about this? Talk to the journal, these will be your honest feelings about what is...

I am in my first poly relationship, I have been dating a woman for 17 months. I am married to a man, we have two kids, also! The three of us are all sexual partners, but I have individual emotional relationships with each of them. I am finding that there is typically lots of ground to cover in...

Oh thanks, kdt26417! People jump to conclusions when they do not know a whole story, but a condensed version of the same exact story, as to not post an entire book in a thread. Ergggggggg. And, what folks don't know is that I have known and been great friends with her. For 12 years. Not only is...

Wow guys, all this seems harsh. I had actually had a conversation with my gf about all these feelings, the day before. She had expressed to me her feelings about being sad that she didn't have that. My husband was not involved in the convo. And, it happened that he had put his arms around her...

What I am saying is that yes, we have come to a place of understanding when it comes to balancing time, presence, etc. Her LDR is not her boyfriend, they are friends who occasionally get together for sex. When they first started talking, the NRE was very high. We did not do enough, either one...

Happy Vee------hopefully blossoming into a triad! This is an excellent thread! I actually just posted about a trouble I was having with my girlfriend (I am the female hinge in our FMF vee), but after an exhausting few days, can say that we're back on solid ground. I have a very utopian view of...

We spoke a few hours after I posted my original message. It was not tense, or angry, but soft and tender. We said things to one another that we needed to say, and we each feel so much better. This is my first poly relationship, and hers, too. We were also really close friends before we began...

I need help guys. I am a married woman of six years, together for eight. I have had a girlfriend for almost 17 months, who sleeps with both of us, but she is platonic with my husband. That dynamic is very good for the three of us. My husband and I are very much in love, and we have two...