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Yeah, you are correct. I was cool with her having regular friends with benefits. It’s the full-blown fallen in love thing I’m struggling with. I’m scared that I’ll lose her to Karl. I’m sure I won’t, but I’ve never felt this threatened before.

The issue is to be honest my wife is madly in love with Karl he feels the same and I’m feeling left out, but it is what it is.

That’s called cheating

Our marriage was fine and still is. We have been like this since 2012. Dawn has had several lovers over the years and they've always been casual affairs. I think it’s me that’s being silly. Karl is madly in love with Dawn and it’s that I struggle with. Before they started dating they knew each...

It’s the other people finding out I find hard I feel like a failure 😞

Thanks for that. It makes sense, as we do things as a couple they don’t, like walking the dog and going to the local for a pint. So I get it. It’s just that we never have sex anymore and if I get a hard on, it only lasts a minute. I know I disappoint her. But as you said, there’s more to life...

I’m just being a silly old fool. She has 35 days of holiday a year. We are both gong to France for a week in August. As for the wedding, that’s only 2 nights away. I’m just suffering from jealousy at the moment. Everything she does with him is better, especially sex. He’s apparently the only man...

Yeah, I am jealous. She is obsessed with him. I am too frightened to intervene. Not only the cruise, as that upset me (jealousy again), but she’s said they are going to a wedding together in September in York. I suppose it’s the fact I wasn’t consulted. I fear I’m losing her, even though she...

Thanks for your reply. I agree with what you say. Dawn is hopelessly in love with Karl, and I’m just a little jealous, that’s all. She cuddles up to me 5 out of 7 nights a week and says she loves me, so that’s good enough for me. I stupidly suggested that she stay with him for 2 nights on the...

Yeah, I see what you mean. Even though my wife and Karl have been having this sexual relationship for about 9 weeks, they have known each other for about 3 years. I’m really happy for them both. She is like a new woman. I suppose she’s now like the woman I married 25 years ago. I’m being...

I know how you're feeling. I’m jealous that my wife has more fun with her boyfriend than me.

My wife Dawn has been with her new boyfriend about 8 weeks. We are all happy. Dawn and I live in our house. She sees Karl about twice a week. Usually he comes over on Tuesdays. I cook and he stays over. Then on Fridays she stays with him. I’m really happy with this, and so are Dawn and Karl...

Yeah correct she has had a male friend for years who comes for coffee when I’m out, it causes all sorts of gossiping, we don’t explain why should we x

Jesus you don’t need counselling, these things happen it’s called life, my wife has unprotected sex with strangers all the time and she’s happy happy as I don’t ever want sex I’d prefer a cup of tea 🥰

If you don’t like it it’s not a poly thing, both parties need to like this before anyone makes a move

Hardly a fantasy I don’t do sex and I definitely wouldn’t class myself as a cuckold, it’s more like she can do whatever she wants and I’m comfortable with it, In 2016 she went to South America for 7 weeks with a plutonic male friend and trust me the curtain twitching was ferocious, while she...

Her name is Dawn, she is more his line manager, I know that’s been a sticking point but they are fond of each other and have a lot in common, she fancies him and he fancies her, working I’m the same place is the only issue we see, ideally if they do get on and make something of it one of them...

Yeah your right, I think Karl would be ideal he’s 10 years younger than her single and has his own place, she is technically his line manager but I suppose they just need to be clever at work, I’ll try and encourage that relationship after the bank holiday,

I agree, it takes time and hopefully this year she can meet someone who she can fall madly in love with its happened before so why not, she feels time is running out for her so sometimes she's letting guys use her and then within weeks its all over or it ends up with no love or romance and she...

well she has a lot to offer she is fun to be with very sexy for her age and outgoing, she would prefer a single guy to be honest and basically she would do anything for the right man, she fell madly in love about 8 years ago and she adored her boyfriend and really looked after him, at his...