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  1. ImaginaryIllusion

    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    ..., and adrift But all this is just standard insecurity crap isn’t it? What’s the broken part? I’ve been starting to get the sense over the last while that I’m just not relating to people properly anymore. I’m inclined to think it has something to do with work, mostly because I have no issues...
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    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    Broken, ... I don’t know what’s wrong. There seems to be something broken, and I’m starting to expect it’s me...but I don’t know what the problem is, I’m just cringing at the constant sound of grinding gears. The following is probably going to be a confused stream of consciousness, incoherent...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Right there with you LR, wondering very much the same thing.
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    Predator Poly Couples

    Bingo! Laws can influence and reflect cultural mores. As such, in a forum such as this, there will not necessarily be agreement of what constitutes right and wrong. So again, let's dispense with various off-topic derailings of this thread, shall we? Before I have to get out my mod voice.
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    Predator Poly Couples

    This might be a good time to remind everyone that this forum is international, and thus rife for the possibilities of cultural differences. I don't know why people continue to think the definition of rape is somehow a matter of opinion, where one POV can be as valid as another, and then debated...
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    Threads moved

    Check the dates before necroing stuff needlessly.
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    Older and Wiser

    Welcome back...
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    Maybe just getting this off my chest

    mod note People better find a better way of introducing themselves to newer members of the community. This sort of thing is happening far too frequently to be acceptable.
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    His wife ended our relationship

    Breather Looks like a good time for everyone to take some time out and reconsider how they address and treat each other on this forum!
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    New triad issues

    I don't read anything in this situation as exceptionally poly in nature. That is, if something would smell bad in a monogamous relationship, it's still smells bad in poly! So, in any other relationships, would you talk about: Noving in with someone after only a month? Tolerate a partner who...
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    Opening Up by Tristan Taormino

    I find that people tend towards books that suit the reader. So how well this particular book might teach you may have more to do with what you're looking for, or what would suit your situation. With that in mind, Opening Up is primarily oriented towards skills that established formerly...
  12. ImaginaryIllusion

    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    I don't know what you're talking about...it was a fishing story...honest! :rolleyes:
  13. ImaginaryIllusion

    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    Into the crucible…Pt3/3 ****SPOILER WARNING**** TO: MY WIFE's RECENT EX-GF, Reading this will contain stuff you can't unlearn! Don't read if you don't want to know!!!! STOP NOW, GO BACK, DO NOT COLLECT $200 Don't whine to me later if you proceed anyways! You have been warned...
  14. ImaginaryIllusion

    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    Into the crucible…Pt2/3 ****SPOILER WARNING**** TO: MY WIFE's RECENT EX-GF, Reading this will contain stuff you can't unlearn! Don't read if you don't want to know!!!! STOP NOW, GO BACK, DO NOT COLLECT $200 Don't whine to me later if you proceed anyways! You have been warned...
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    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    Into the crucible…Pt1/3 ****SPOILER WARNING**** TO: MY WIFE's RECENT EX-GF, Reading this will contain stuff you can't unlearn! Don't read if you don't want to know!!!! STOP NOW, GO BACK, DO NOT COLLECT $200 Don't whine to me later if you proceed anyways! You have been warned...
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    Thinking of buying book called "What do Women Want?" for my girlfriend

    CAPTCHA codes were added to the new members group (Less than 5 posts) a while back (For spam management). After the 5 posts, you should not require those anymore. However, that progression only works for members who have verified their email address through the system.
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    New(ish) possible partner and children

    That's quite enough. Locked.
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Mod Note: I'm going to take a moment to direct everyone to the User Guidelines and suggest anyone who needs a refresher takes a look. I also mention this, because they, along with some other things are likely to start changing in the near to medium term. It seems some have gotten to used to...
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Mod Note: Alright, not even 10 posts in and already we have a new member reading hostility here. Just a reminder to everyone that this forum exists for people to come and ask their questions, and be treated with respect. And yes, that applies to unicorn hunters, as well, as their journeys in...
  20. ImaginaryIllusion

    Hey Everyone!

    OKC is decent for at least trying to find people on a similar wavelength...though as I expect you've already discovered there's sometimes still a very small pool of people who are accepting of people outside the mono-stream. It may be a long wait, so be patient. Welcome to the Forum.
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