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  1. ImaginaryIllusion

    [Pittsburgh] staring into the abyss.......

    Welcome to the Forum.
  2. ImaginaryIllusion

    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    So as usual I'm way behind on current events in my life. As usual there's been far more changes around me than I've taken the time to talk about. But now is not the time. Right now I'm taking my wife out on a date. It's a far more classy affair than either of us technically deserve. But the...
  3. ImaginaryIllusion

    The Market

    Can't offer much in terms of such parties, but I have been down to the CSPC on a couple occasions. They strike me as very organized and well run, and as you can see from their description they are very specific about outlining expectations and guidelines for their events. Have a blast!
  4. ImaginaryIllusion

    Well it's over

    Mod Note Alright, it seems that everyone is having some issues actually staying on a civil topic again, and from all appearances, have carried on argueing over the smoking ruins of whatever thread the OP had tried to get support from. If there is dog piling going on, that is a apparent...
  5. ImaginaryIllusion

    Fighting "metamours," DnD argument

    As I expected, they resolved things before I could get to it... But lessons for next time: DnD arguments are a gaming issue, not a poly issue. Sometimes when men get all puffy and beat their chests at each other, they're just working it out. Let it ride. If you really want to interrupt the...
  6. ImaginaryIllusion

    How did I get here & Where am I going?

    On Coming out, and the face of true integrity I suppose an update is long overdue. And I don't have time to go into all of it. A lot of things from previous posts have been overtaken by events, but I'll try to rewind to the relevant sections as the current mess is still unfolding, so it'd be...
  7. ImaginaryIllusion

    A gf for us to share

    There is little in the way of stats... mostly a lot of anecdotes which have been turned into a significant amount of propaganda. If we were to apply the same test to poly in general using the posts on this forum, it would be concluded that poly was an absolutely asinine relationship model full...
  8. ImaginaryIllusion

    A gf for us to share

    Don't let the unicorn hunting stuff throw you too much. The debates are often heated, but it's far from conclusive or universal as to how the unicorns actually feel about these things. We keep trying to get one for a survey on these things, but no one can ever find them. I don't see anything...
  9. ImaginaryIllusion

    Bashing Unicorn Hunters

    Mod Note: Alright....there's meandering ebb and flow of conversation and topics, but this one seems to be doing a 4x4 rally race through the Sahara.... How about we either sum it up, or get back on topic.
  10. ImaginaryIllusion

    Looking for a few Spam Sweepers

    New Sweepers We've had an excellent response from the Community with regards to this issue. We're still taking it one step at a time, so we're starting with the first four who expressed interest, and see where that takes us. Sweepers: Polyq4 Nycindie LovingRadiance Emm Thanks to all who...
  11. ImaginaryIllusion

    Looking for a few Spam Sweepers

    There has been some interest in the amount of spam we have on the boards, and some have asked if they could assist. Here's a chance to pitch in and assist Polyamory.com in keeping the Spam where it belongs. We're looking for a few people interested in becoming Spam Sweepers. Their role is to...
  12. ImaginaryIllusion

    Wow

    lizzygirl, I understand that you might be a little put off by the rather frank and pointed feedback you have recieved so far. However, you indicated that you were doing your research and looking for advice as you were unsure of what happens next... It just so happens that what you and your...
  13. ImaginaryIllusion

    Announcement regarding changes to Mod Staff:

    There has been a change recently to the Moderation Staff on Polyamory.com. AutumnalTone has left his position as a mod on the forum. The mod staff now consists of: RedPepper ImaginaryIllusion AutumnalTone has been an active and steady moderator since the inception of this forum, volunteering...
  14. ImaginaryIllusion

    What is appropriate to post about & where? (Autumnaltone please read)

    Obe While I appreciate everyone trying to maintain a courteous discourse on this topic and expressing their concern for the well-being of the forum and community here, this thread has been going on quite long enough given the guidelines for the site: In addition to the above, I will also note...
  15. ImaginaryIllusion

    [Study] Canadian Study on Poly, Mono, Swinging, Participants requested.

    A new study underway looking for Canadian Participants! Feedback for this study so far has been positive.
  16. ImaginaryIllusion

    What is a heirarchy, really?

    This particular blog post is a good example of why people should be careful about what they read on the internet. This attempt at a definition of "Poly Hierarchy" is a good example of a small committee of people who have decided to create a specific label of shit to smear on others. Pretty much...
  17. ImaginaryIllusion

    Color Coding?

    Are you calling me cranky?!
  18. ImaginaryIllusion

    Color Coding?

    Um....ok...since you suggested it.
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