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I'm not sure if I can really answer your question. I may be limited in that I've come to poly with a primary partner from my formerly mono marriage. So I haven't personally had the experience of trying to find a primary or, non-hierarchical life partner from the poly dating pool, or collection...

I understand your frustration. Poly has such a wide variety of practices that it can take quite a while to find partners that might be truly compatible with what you're looking for, and the extreme shallowness of the poly corner of the dating pool really doesn't help that. And unfortunately the...

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Welcome to the Forum. There are plenty of resources around here, and some people near you have probably already posted in the personals section. I don't know off hand about any IRL poly groups in NH but there is some active groups around upstate NY with whom you could probably connect...

Yes. Very good. :cool:

Fear and Speculation, Life outside the closet?? As previously mentioned, my wife and I are thinking about coming out of the closet...at least a little. There’s a lot of apprehension, and uncertainty of course, but I’m optimistic that it will be better than living indefinitely under the Sword of...

I was figuring that someone who likes "bacon, guns, and zombies", isn't going to be deterred by a little FB sparing. Her skin would be thicker than that. No worries.

Find another seat! In other news, I think I done a good thing last week. I’ve found that there’s a lot of material firing across my crackbook feed lately, from decent poly folks in other places, with various axes to grind. To some extent I find the constant assault on old values, and possibly...

Polycamp Too & Polycamp NW The summer has been pretty active in terms of spending time with the poly community. I attended both the All Ages Polycamp on Vancouver Island, and we made the trek again this year to Polycamp NW. I should have blogged about it earlier while the revelations and all...

As far as current relationships go, things seem pretty stable between my wife and her gf. I still have no issues of note with my metamore, or anyone on that side of the tribe. At the moment I’m travelling again...in the boonies outside Toronto right now...and after a short reunion at home, I’ll...

Time for a Fix.... I’ve been aware for a while that one of the issues that we have with the blogs here is that they often only contain the negatives, baggage, and agony of people unloading their problems, issues, concerns whenever they hit a low point in their poly journey. And it makes...

Answers are No, No, and Maybe by some people's standards, but that's perfectly Ok, particularly if you're being ethical about it. Welcome to the Forum.

Poly In the Media: SEPTEMBER 25, 2012 Casting call for possible 2nd season of Showtime's Polyamory

I will make one request though when you're reporting spam. It's helpful if you only report one spam post by a given user. When nuking spam we wipe out all their messages, so the other 19 reports aren't really needed, and we can get through them quicker. Thanks again for everyone's help in...

That's why when these things come up its handy for people who can stomachs them to read or at least login and push the ratings up or down...it will let the bigots know that they're loosing their majority. Or at least the editors...I'm sure the bigots could care less.

There's an article in the Globe today, which used the TV show to open awareness of the larger poly community...check it out...and hit the comments if you can stomache them as usual. Polyamory: Three’s (or four’s, or five’s) company...

I'm thinking I should warn anyone looking at this page that I only check these posts once in a blue moon...almost literally. Instead of a Visitor Message, go to the "Contact Info" tab, and send me a "Private Message" to get ahold of me in a more timely fashion.

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I'll add quickly for your own reference, that the key indicator that the judge used in his decision was the presence of a ceremony. If the three of you have had a formalized "marriage" type ceremony...then it might be a long case, as it would then get into community endorsement, etc. etc...