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  1. ImaginaryIllusion

    Fishing out lost post? (Yeah I'm optimistic)

    Sorry. If it didn't make it as far as the site, then we won't have any record of it here.
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    Good, complicated, tentative, weird, wildhearted

    Welcome to the Forum.
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    Hello!

    Welcome to the Forum.
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    Curious, cautious n00b

    Welcome to the Forum.
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    Hi from the New Guy SoCal!

    Welcome to the Forum.
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    Hello from Oregon!

    Welcome to the Forum. My understanding is that there's also a live person community in Portland...I should probably dig up a link or two. There's also plenty of activity in Seattle too. If you're not already aware of it there's a poly camp NW coming up in August, not too far from Portland...
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    I come in peace, yep yep.

    Welcome to the Forum. I expect you'll have no shortage of friendly.
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    The Respect Due to Blogs

    It's in the user guidelines: Any other questions?
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    I Lost a Friend Because I Came Out To Her Tonight...

    Mod Note: Blog Post I'd just like to remind everyone in case you missed it, that this is in the blogs section, and the respect due that status still applies.
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    I Lost a Friend Because I Came Out To Her Tonight...

    Speaking of wrong, there's no hard evidence that any cultures practiced polyamory. Lots of polygamy yes, but any non-patriarchal model resembling polyamory would have been pre-history so there's no record. Chris: Thank you very much for sharing these transcripts. It's awesome to see some real...
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    Poly Dating Sites?

    This post mentions a couple of the more popular choices, both free. POF? Not too bad as a single (although some friends I know have met more than their fair share of psycho's hose beasts there), however, it's not particularly forgiving for guys who already have a partner.
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    Cuddle Parties?

    I'm not too familiar with Reid, and haven't been able to make too many (read any) conferences as yet. The cozy relationship between organizers is an interesting bit though. I have been invited by proxy though to similar cuddle parties through some of the poly folk in Calgary. To date it hasn't...
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    Inner patriarch

    I've moved your thread to a more suitable section where people are more likely to see it. Apologies that I don't have time this morning to speak on this in detail, but some of the processes I used are discussed in my blog. (Link in my sig)
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    "Dear Mr. and Mrs. UH, I'm not sure how to say this, but..."

    I appreciate you sharing both your views and your experience here. Your vote for a kinder gentler forum is noted, and I both agree that it'd be great if people were nicer to each other, and like the fact that you take responsibility to handle the less kind responses that sometimes happen here. I...
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    "Dear Mr. and Mrs. UH, I'm not sure how to say this, but..."

    This discussion has been going on a while now, and I don't see any reason to interrupt such discourse at all, but I wanted to take this opportunity to haul out some key portions of the user guidelines that I think apply to this discussion, and is worth all members new and old to read and...
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    Spam Reports

    Absolutely keep reporting spam. We don't have time to comb through all the threads most of the time. We mostly just clean up whatever the filter gets, and the filter catches a lot. However user reports are excellent to get the posts that the filters miss...particularly sig line spam links and...
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    how do I delete my account?

    I think you're misreading the suggestions in response to your original post. If you want to look for people to form a relationship with, then those belong in the Personals section for your area, hence why your original post was moved there. If you'd like to introduce yourself and a bit about...
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    Lurker No More

    Welcome to the Forum. Hopefully you'll find something around here to help you find home peace and harmony in your life.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    And I'm off on the road again. I get to spend all next week in Ottawa. We'll see if there's any poly's there that are game for random coffee or something...I think the timing is off for the organized events.
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