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How dare WH share her experiences as what it feels like to be treated as less than...:rolleyes: I am poly and I bring up the same argument all the time to people pulling the couple privilege card.

I third this... I am a private person and would be put off having to socialize to make someone else comfortable.

Then do not lie... Her emotion and actions are hers to deal with.

Why would you want to invite this kind of drama into your life?

Polynatural never once have you introduced yourself or shared your poly experience. You just hang your shingle out pushing your website and your narrow view on poly on other peoples threads. You preach how we are doing it wrong. For all we know you have never had a poly relationship let alone a...

Polynatural you can kindly shove your narrow minded views of poly where the sun doesn't shine. My partners, who are metamours, have chosen parallel poly for themselves. My 7 soon to be 8 year poly vee proves it works very well for us. Hell I am married to both men. My husbands both want to be...

I will be the odd one out.. I would go to and from the event with who I wanted. Metas get no say over who I decided to spend my time with. If I want to spend time with Murf I spend time with Murf. If I want to spend time with Butch I will spend time with Butch. Neither one gets to decide who I...

I respect Murfs privacy and do not share the intimate details of our relationship with Butch. Murf is a private person and would be pissed off if I shared his private life. It would be a deal breaker for him. I am the same way so I understand. Butch on the otherhand wants the details but he does...

I agree with what Meera said... My advice is slow down. And when people show you who they truly are believe them.

Your girlfriend is a sloppy hinge. You do not have a husband problem. The problem is your girlfriend. It is her job to not allow relationship bleed over.

https://www.nar-anon.org/ Have you thought about joining a support group for family and friends of addicts?

I cohabitate with both my husbands BUT under two different roofs. There is no way in hell either of my husbands would not 100% say over what happens in their home There is the option of you going between two separate households. It is no big deal. I am close by to either one in case of...

WH I am so sorry that Byron treated you the way he did. I hope I never treat Murf that way. I do not think you are antipoly. I personally get angry here at some of the self centered and self serving attitudes. I think we do not see a lot of secondaries because they are scared to admit to...

So what if he wants to break it off with her. You two can continue to have a relationship.

Never thought I would say this but I have fallen in love with my Kia Soul. It never needs anything beyond basic maintenance. We have ran the wheels off of it too. It has been back and forth to Charlotte 3 times. NYC 4 times. NJ several times. Back and forth to Cincinnati 4 or 5 times. To Philly...

While a man 20 years younger and myself may have things in common our lives are at totally different places. For example I love music and going to concerts and I love doing new adventurous things. But I am done having kids. I have roots. I enjoy staying in. But I could date a man 20 years older...

Give DarkKnight a hug for me and tell him he is awesome. No one should ever be put in the position he was and he is a wonderful man.

The other gf is not the problem. Your boyfriend is and you need to focus all your angst on him not her. He is the one breaking your agreements and allowing his other relationship to bleed into yours. He is the problem not her. You are an adult and need not have anything to do with her or hear...

Happiness is not a a constant state. It is like a string of pearls... You take small bright moments and string them into a beautiful string of memories....

The OP put a OPP on his exgf thus removing the chance of his gf from finding a nesting partner fo herself. He wanted her to move into his wife's house. Only be with him. The gf was stuck playing poly his way. There was no compromise. For example the OP could have offerdd sharing separate homes...