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Hate to be the bearer of bad news but even if your your wife called it quits with Mara tomorrow. Your marriage as you knew it is dead. The genie is out of the bottle and there is no going back completely. Yes you can go back to being a Monogamous couple BUT it will not be the same. Why if you...

Yes you could have a commitment ceremony but that wtill does not give her the legal protection that comes with legal marriage. If something were to happen to you she would have no leg to stand on regarding your estate. I have had to jump through some big legal hoops to protect Murf in the case...

Polyamory isn't for her... You cannot offer her something important to her. Let her move on with her life and search for her happiness.

To me this sounds like the marriage is over problem rather than a kitchen table poly problem.

My relationships are 95% separate. There is no need for me to be a go between. My husbands can communicate as much or as little as they want. I just make sure that I do not bleed issues in one relationship into the other.

I would run screaming from any partner that had another partner who needed to vet me.

While I do not practice hierarchical polyamory if all parties go into a relationship with full knowledge and consent I see no issue.

Then she doesn't come... I may sound harsh but Bluebirds daughters boyfriend could cost Dark Knight a job. My parents are required to go through a Federal background check for work. Things relatives do show up on that and can cost someone a job. She has 2 husbands, other children, and etc to...

I understand taking in the daughter but not the bf. I am sorry but both the state and federal government can take your house, property, and assets if there are drugs involved. My neighbors granddaughter is hooked on herion. They took her in so she wouldn't be homeless and to help her get...

Do not let the man move into your house. I have a feeling they may just show up on your door step. I am sorry you are going through this.

Hate to be the bearer of bad news but kids do not keep secrets. They will tell someone. Nor is it fair to place such a burden on children. It is not their job to keep your relationship a secret.

I am the Mother of 3 boys. Kids will expose your secrets to family, friends, teachers, strangers, and so on. Are you prepared for the world to know your private life? Especially extended family. I am out to the world but your children could pay the backlash from society or family if you...

My answer will depend on few things.. Are you out of the poly closet to the world?

Why not get a hobby where you get to interact with people who share your interests. For me it is animals.. For years I have competed with dogs or horses. For Butch he goes to the martial arts gym. For Murf it is cars both racing and showing classic cars. (I met him showing my 70 Nova) For some...

Love may be infinite but time is finite. I know how much room I have in my life time wise to be fair to my partners and also their needs. It would not be fair for me to add anyone in my life due to a temporary void in my schedule. Nor would it be fair to my current partners to take time away...

I have been in a healthy stable poly dynamic for almost 8 years... There are many here who have been doing this longer than I have. I know after your temper tantrum last post you do not want to hear advice from poly people who ha e been doing this a long time. So I am not going to waste my...

I do not love Murf any less than Butch just because of a piece of paper. They both are extremely important to me and love them both with all my heart. Each of them bring something special to my life.

Bonnents.. This guy is nothing but a cheater who got caught. A partner practicing ethical polyamory would have told you from very earpy on exactly what style relationship they are looking for. My advice run...

I agree with your wife... I would be direct and to the point.

When people show you who they are believe them....