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Hello, We ask that all couples coming here "seeking a third" to "add to our relationship" to please read this, for educational purposes and to comply with the intent of the forum. https://polyamory.com/threads/a-note-for-couples-posting-seeking-ads.156754/ Thank you, Your Mod Team

I moved this thread to the Dating and Friendships section. I'd suggest if you/your wife want real long-term relationships, you don't give the wrong idea by saying you and your wife are looking to "have some fun." That gives the wrong idea. Swingers call casual sex, or friendly sport sex...

Thanks for the review. It sounds like typical mainstream idea for polyamory, and why we get so many fucked up confused people coming here. Yuck yuck yuck. 🤬

No, it's fine. I'm glad you read the Guidelines and posted an Intro. Usually Intros are more along the lines of: "Hi, I'm so and so, I've been poly for..." or "I've been interested in poly for..." or, "My partner and I have been exploring opening up, and..."

What do you mean by "keep intact"?

hotzeldanerd26 Hot Zelda Nerd 26, please post an introduction in our Introductions space or you may be deleted as spam.

I am sorry you struggle with health issues. As Tinwen said, it sounds like your wife wants casual sex with another person who has a working penis. You've posted on a board for "poly"=many "amory"=loves. That said, do you still have a sex drive? Do you and Wife practice outercourse (kissing...

Just as background, my mind is going to a place of to wanting to paint a picture of your homelife and your partner's homelife, your ages, genders, hormonal state (menopause, for example), emotional maturity, social life, neuro status (like, are you on the autism spectrum and is your partner more...

Polyamory is a topic that adolescents learn about in our culture today, on the streets, so to speak. The concept is being talked about in our culture, and kids are sponges. They pick things up. You might ask them if they have heard of open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, swinging or...

There are some threads on triads archived in our Golden Nuggets section. Here is one, with information from the unicorn's POV: https://polyamory.com/threads/a-little-help-please-triad.480/ Included at the end of that thread is the "hot bi babe flowchart," which shows how the unicorn hunt goes...

Hello, We ask that all couples coming here seeking a woman to join relationship to please read this, for educational purposes and to comply with the intent of the forum. https://polyamory.com/threads/a-note-for-couples-posting-seeking-ads.156754/ Thank you, Your Mod Team

Hi, what is a "paid GM," might I ask?

Hello, We ask that all couples coming here "seeking a third," or in your case, a third and a fourth(!) to join them, to please read this, for educational purposes and to comply with the intent of the forum. https://polyamory.com/threads/a-note-for-couples-posting-seeking-ads.156754/ Thank...

Hi, Dog. I didn't state it to assert this behavior is ethical or healthy or proper or polite. I was just trying to say, "You are not alone," for comfort and hope. "Others have done this, and we've come through it. You can too." That kind of thing. There can be outright abuse in certain cases...

Aha. So she was, after 20 years (her entire adult life) with one partner, never having held another penis in her hand, so to speak, incredibly curious. You went along with it? "Sure, sex with another woman would be fine. Oh, wait. You don't want a threesome with a hot bi babe? You want another...

You could reread the OP. Strugglebus seems to realize himself something you are avoiding perceiving. His partner fell in love with another man without meaning to. I believe she couldn't have renegotiated agreements right away, because she didn't fully realize, or allow herself to admit, that she...

I am part way through reading this older thread with a similar topic-- written by a man who was used to swinging with his wife in MFM sexual threesomes, until she took a liking to a guy and started doing one-on-one stuff autonomously. The horror...

Here are my thoughts relevant to that. I guess I was in a similar place. I was and am a person of my word, respectful, honorable, intelligent, even intellectual, strong, supportive of others, nurturing and all that. However, back in the day when I was in my long mono/hetero marriage, despite my...

Hello, We ask that all couples coming here "seeking a third" to "add to our relationship" to please read this, for educational purposes and to comply with the intent of the forum. https://polyamory.com/threads/a-note-for-couples-posting-seeking-ads.156754/ Thank you, Your Mod Team

Oh, that sounds lovely, Gardener. The power of full body touch can't be overemphasized. Aries and I always reconnect with a big warm hug and some kisses, and then we either sit and talk and catch up, and eat some food together, or we head to the bedroom for sex, depending on what seems best. ;)...