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    Dutch guy's search.

    Came home from the night shift. say'd hello and goodbye to my wife and kids. working on the firefighter station now. did some workout to here. I can feel my body change sinds I started doing workouts again. been in an accident a few months ago but the pain is now gone. Really wanna get fit again...
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    How to cope with lonelyness

    Night shift again last night, bummer. This morning kissed the kids and P goodbye they left for school and work. slept, and slept well cuddled up with an worn pyjama (thanks for the tip). woke up around 12:00 quick shower and went to the firefighter station to do some home work. been working till...
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    When to tell the kids

    I do agree we are rushing things a bit, it wasn't planned or anything. It's just that we are all so happy NRE, and that it feels like it had to be this way, for a long time. (i've ben struggling with being bisexual for most of my puberty and adult life). And i have been struggling with my...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    No cuddling today slept most of the day. P took care of the kids. D was out with friends and went home at 22:00 so he went straight to his own home. I'm working the nightshift again. This morning the oldest daughter asked P why D went home so late. We said because we had a good time. She didn't...
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    When to tell the kids

    The oldest kid asked why D was stayed so late last night she told that she heard us talking. :D happy she didn't hear other things happening. She could tell D left later than me going to work.
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    Making partners feel loved

    I don't know really because I never had a lot of lover's. But the lovers I have had. The way we inter acted was completely different. The way I interact and give affection to my wife feels most natural. Not much here to add to the discussion
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    Dutch guy's search.

    On the job and had a beautiful evening. Talked about the future together and our expectations. About how to tell the kids. Made fun of the reactions we are gonna get from others. Specially my Christian parents. Had some warm hugs cuddles and trouple fun.:D:D:D Can't get it out of my head. D...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    Yesterday work and sick to bed at 17:00 woke up today went to the fancy fair at the girls school. D is at his father's birthday. And send us a message he is coming at 19:00 Happy happy we have time to spend together finally. Bummer I have to work at 23:00. Looking forward to the company and the...
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    Period. Sex

    Sorry about this. Let's assume I said personally I totally jump my partner when she has her period!" This is more of what I did mean to say. Really sorry that I offended people.
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    Why always the 'do you sleep in the same bed' question?

    We lived a mono life for 15 years. And I really need someone i love in my bed to sleep well. Wife one or all of the kids a good friend or a night with a couple just some one I trust. And I can sleep. If I'm alone I bed it takes ages to fall asleep or not at all. A very sweet female friend of...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    Not a great day today. Busy day at work. Lot's of talking and computer work hate that is not where I have chosen for. I want to care not to administrate. One of the kids is sick. P is on the couch watching net flix. And D is in his own home feeling bad and watching net flix to. In the meanwhile...
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    When to tell the kids

    Exactly what I mean.
  13. M

    When to tell the kids

    It's a difficult thing. I still don't know what to do. We will figure it out finally. I think. And I hope that it is the right thing for the kids they are priority nr1 for me.
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    Dutch guy's search.

    So far I I'm very happy with the tips and help here on this forum. My apologies for the sometimes strange sentences that I use English isn't my first language and in Holland we only do British English at school. I,m not used to write in English so its kind of rusty. Some times I use words and...
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    When to tell the kids

    Double post
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    When to tell the kids

    We Will tell the Kids but not to friends or family
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    When to tell the kids

    We are not out of the poly closet. First because it' s very recent that we "had our first time to give in to our feelings," D and I had feelings for each other for more than 3 years. His ex girlfriend didn't accept this. one of the reasons its his ex now. My wife liked him as a friend. My wife...
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    When to tell the kids

    They allready know about the camping trip we always go on holiday with this friend. We will have to tell them that they will be sleeping in the small tent and that the grown ups will be sleeping in the main tent. ""It might be that they are okay with it but don't want to see it in which case...
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    When to tell the kids

    Yes but that's a little difficult when we are together 24\7 on a camping trip. So if they don't want to see us together it will be very difficult for us and them.
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    Period. Sex

    Don't know what you mean by this. Don't know what reddit means. Didn't mean disrespect. Its just if my wife suggested sex in her period I wouldn't say no and not be mean to her. Her friend should feel lucky. OK reddit is a site had to look it up.
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