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I can't seem to find a way to find peace and happiness with my hubby's current other relationship. I feel like I've tried so many different approaches, taken the advice of many of you here, hell I even went to a therapist for the first time in my life, but I'm exhausted from trying so hard and...

I researched poly friendly counselors from the links provided here by gracious members and worked up the courage to schedule an appointment. I have never been to any type of therapy, let alone to discuss such a controversial and personal subject as my endeavors as a monogamous partner in a...

This is my question. Seems like it should be fairly simple, but I'm struggling to make a decision..... My in-laws are in town this week. We have a favorite restaurant and there is a plan to go there for lunch tomorrow. My hubby has decided he would like his gf to meet his parents and has...

Wish I was happy. Wish I could find compersion. Wish I wasn't struggling. As soon as I have an UP day, two more DOWN days follow. I should probably start off this post by saying I'm currently sleep deprived. Forgive me if something doesn't make sense. I've gotten such great advice from the...

Just wondering how everyone feels about pet names. Do you have different pet names for each partner? Would you feel slighted if your love used the same pet name for all partners? What if your metamour started calling your love by the same pet name you have for him, would you find a new name?

I find myself once again needing advice. My hubby is about 3 months into a new relationship, they're still in NRE but have reached the "love" stage. I really don't have many boundaries, I let them do their thing in our house and I don't limit the number of days/hours/overnights they share. But...

Hi, I introduced myself to the boards a couple of days ago. I am mono and my partner is poly. I am his primary and he has recently ended an 8 year secondary relationship and is in the process of beginning a new one. Actually, tonight is their first sexual encounter and I am having a hard time...

Hi, LovelyLady here. I am a woman in love with a man who loves others. We're not new to this lifestyle but new to the labels. I guess I am a mono to a poly? My man has recently ended his secondary relationship of 8 years and is in the process of starting a new one. I think the beginning of a...