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Hello fellow Texan.

Thanks everyone for the advice. I am currently writing him a letter to give to him this weekend. I hope he will listen.

Galagirl. May I pm you?

Right now I'm not even going to mention the separation. I want to make sure I got some things lined up first. I want to have a full exit plan. I will try and re write the letter and give it to him soon so we can try and open our communication lines again.

Right now communication is our major problem. I feel like I cant approach him to talk to him. We used to have a very open communicative relationship. It started breaking down as after I met my ex gf. I'm not blaming her for our problems she did nothing wrong. It seemed like my husband wanted to...

Yes there are several reasons why I feel like I should stay the two major ones are loyalty and guilt. I have been with him or 17 years. He has always been loving, stable, and supportive. He has been my rock all these years. He has helped me through the toughest parts of my life. You are right...

The one and only experience we've had was when I was involved with her. That relationship was unexpected on all accounts. The relationship ended and everyone is trying to move on. Yes he is set on a closed or triad. He is even trying to find someone online. A woman for both of us. I don't...

Pocket veto??? Never heard of that? Please explain.

My last poly experience didn't work out so well on either end. It was something that we had not discussed before because we never expected me to find a woman that I connected with. He approved of me experimenting just didn't know how me being in 2 relationships at once would effect both of us. I...

Shaya, Thanks for welcoming me to the group. I know in my last thread I was heading into a sticky situation. I did travel to go see Angel while her husband was out of town and was able to get her the help she needed. She is working on getting out of her current situation. In order for her...

I never properly introduced myself when I first signed up. I was dealing with drama in my life. Things have calmed down a bit for now. First of all I am married to Ken, he is 65 and been together for 17 year married for 15 years. I am 35. I am currently in a LDR with my gf Angel. She and I have...

Also need your advice .... On April 27th and 28th I have a chance to see my girlfriend while her husband is out of town with school related business. I have already received approval to take those days off work. All my gf and I plan on doing is staying at her house and spending some quality...

Her son is 2 almost 3 years old. When I talk to her on the phone he tells me hi and sometimes what he did during the day. I have met him once. We took him to the park and we both played with him. His speech is still hard for dad to understand and so if/when her son does talk about me it sounds...

Let me clarify that the only time we have to be sneaky is when she wants to talk to me when he is nearby. He is that way when she tried talking to a mutual friend she met through me. We don't have to be sneaky to meet because we schedule the date about a month in advance. He knows what are plans...

I have no poly experience but the way you have laid out the story so far sounds great. I am an avid sci-fi reader and I would love to read your story once completed. Good luck!

Honestly, I am terrified of leaving the security of marriage. By doing so I would lose my entire family except maybe 2 people and she would lose all hers. Her family is homophobic and so she is not out of the closet except to her husband who just thinks she's bi. Just the short time together I...

Due to the fact that my gf and I have martial obligations and she has a child. We both still love our spouses. So right now we are not discussing any exit strategies. Even if that was possible we would not be able financial secure if we left our marriages. She currently is a full time student...

Apologize in advance if my thoughts are a bit random, a lot things going on and having trouble sorting them out. We first started talking via the phone and messenger in Oct 2016 and did our first meet face to face in Jan 2017. Like I said in my previous post it was an instant connection for...

Thanks in advance for taking the time to read my thread. First let me give you a little history before I get to my problem. My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Eight years into my marriage I realized I was bisexual/gay . My husband is 65 and I am 36. He understands he cannot...