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I'm not sure what it is she's giving him. I understand getting things from other partners... but as far as I know, all she's giving him is a hard time.

The saga continues. BF has confided in my spouse about what's going on in the marriage, which I thought was fine and good. They are so close. Hubs ended up telling me not to expect them to divorce, and that I need to get over my loathing of the wife, and accept that he wants to stay with her...

My partner had some issues too...with us, it seemed to be the condoms combined with other issues. Through talks with my spouse, and both having clean testing, we decided to go bareback and its been so much better.

Huh, didn't know that about HPV. something new every day. guess we can just all be safe as possible. I agree herpes is a worse scenario

It's well beyond that at this point.

Absolutely. While jealousy is undesirable in poly, everyone deals with and fights it. its a human emotion, in my opinion largely bred my societal norms. or ive had too much coffee

lol...yes indeed. happens much in poly ;)

my poly therapist says there are areas of romantic needs. Affection, Sexual, Financial, Emotional, and Sexual. You can write out for yourself hhow each partner meets any of those needs, and what you are feeling youre lacking and how you can get it. One person is unlikely to fufill ALL of...

Ok so I DID go back and read after writing to you, sorry I now see you'd already said you'd changed your mind :) You really sound like you are working through this, and with your partner, very well. Mad props. The first few times are the hardest....even being poly for over a year, and having...

Agree with Mag here, poly is often practicing "safer" sex. of course the safest way is to be fluid bonded with only one person, or group of people, with no outsiders. But if you have outsiders, then safer sex comes in. For us, I am fluid bonded with both my primaries and they are both to have...

its nice if you can get it ;) Ive scoped out single guys, but they seem to want more than I can give. Then again, I was also already in love with a man with a wife. sigh.

Hi PiP! I like how our names contrast ;)

I did not read all the replies....but what you are talking about is a One Penis Policy, and yeah a lot of people see them as a no go. Let me tell you a story...I met a guy, poly like me, who I thought was pretty neat. we casually dated, then all met up to hang out (both married) my spouse...

good point, it sounds like this guy is calling all the shots. If I did this with one of my boys, it would be because I wanted to

It happens...mine, well. they aren't really even together anymore, not because of us. But if they reconnect, get back together etc., she wouldn't like how entwined he has become in my life and that of my spouse and kids. he's like family to us, she never would be (they have no children). Im...

I can get this...im straight, but i'd have a threesome with a lady and one of my guys cause they'd like it so much. their being turned on would turn me on

I';ve got to call BS on his calling the shots on other men. polyfi is great, i'd like it if I could have it. right now, I have two primaries one my spouse, the other by BF going through a separation. If he divorces ,would I like him to find another woman who is also interested in/involved with...

If you want to get more complicated, my BF and his wife are separated but live together. We aren't friends. So what the heck are we? lol

Yeah, I am. I don't want to see him hurt anymore, and he would be brilliant out on his own. Wait I shall. Unfortunately, I'm the impatient type, but I'm learning.

Right. Last time I checked, none of us were sex workers, nor would I fluid bond with one. TO ME, the importance of it in relationships is the exclusivity.