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Thank you for the insightful answer. The marriage is quite important to me. Yes, my wife prefers a hetero-mono marriage right now. I also wanted that initially, and sometimes still like such an arrangement. She is also in most of my fantasies, so I'd like her to be with me, even in a poly...

Thank you for the replies and the warm welcome. Yes, bisexuality added to the complexity. For a few years, I really wanted to fall in love and have a boyfriend, but I also needed a female partner, so it was a dilemma. I was still struggling with figuring out what I needed. I had been in a...

Hi, I have been posting on the board lately, so I should also do self-introductions. I'm nks, a bi male, now in a monogamous marriage with a woman. Originally, I was uninterested in men and I thought I simply wanted a monogamous relationship. Things however turned out to be more complicated...

Magdlyn and Tiwen's advice is wise and very workable. They have plenty of experience, while mine is more limited, so you should listen to them first. The only reason I wrote about working on the throuple, because you (Allypie96) wrote that you loved the group aspect, the sex, and you too saw the...

Hi, I'm sorry that you are in this unpleasant situation. I have been in a kind of throuple with two women and a very fine balance is needed to maintain it well. Can you tell us why you feel you cannot have a deeper bond with R? In throuples there are multiple dynamics at play which can be...

Hi, what you describe pretty much sounds like hotwifing. You can check out ourhotwives or similar boards for concrete advice. They have a lot of stories and guides on how to do it and what to avoid. It seems there are many couples who can make it work. It is often an extremely exciting thing for...

Good insightful answers all around. A few things I would like to add. For me, it is difficult to believe that there is no love, if she is the kind of person who is not just sleeping with someone. I would imagine that there must be strong feelings already. But if she is polyamorous then it...

Hi! I can understand your situation, as I have also been bad in bed. Sometimes it is just question of a good or bad match in bed. With an ex, everything goes well, then with someone new things just don't work out. Sometimes it is just what your wife/gf wants is different - for example an...

Hi, I haven't read through all the threads, just the main original posts and this thread, so sorry if there is some overlap. Well, the situation is not good in the sense that this is not what you have signed up for when you got married. However, it seems you want to make it work, so you are...

Hi, thank you for sharing your story. It seems you have a satisfying relationship and a good arrangement so far. I sense, correct me if I'm wrong, that you feel that you are a bit left out and perhaps a bit put off by not being considered more, that you don't have more weight in the V. You have...