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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    Hello Magdlyn, nice to meet you and thank you for your nice words, Indeed, English is not my first language, but I hope I’m not too annoying with my wording. And yes, small apartments is not something unusual around. We got mixed reactions from other extended family members and friends. We...
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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    It was about 4 months, so much it took until she decided to start dating again. Eve's reaction to his leaving was also one of being sorry, because over those years, she got used to him and they went along very well. Martin was a chill type of guy and very funny, in general, and he was often...
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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    I don't think it was a commitment issue, but rather a compatibility issue. Or not even that, but rather the low libido that i've generally faced since forever, which I was not able to improve it in a sustainable long run, but only with efforts over limited periods of time. It was a tension due...
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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    She did not date those two that I mentioned in the same time. She dated several after the break-up with Martin, and I gave these two examples of the more potential dates tuning into relationships. But yes, even if I was already used to the overall situation by then, I suppose you can never be...
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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    I consider as advantage for me that we found a solution to keep our marriage going. I can’t see myself living without her and I would do anything I can for her to be happy. This setup took some of the pressure off us, it took the pressure off myself having to perform sexually as I feel like I...
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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    Hello Dingedheart, glad to meet you! Back then we did absolutely zero research. The therapy times were during 2014-2016, something like that. So it was a while before 2019 when poly for us started. The hope with the therapy was to find ways to maybe get able to improve our intimate activity...
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    Challenges of my wife's dating and relationships

    Hello, I’m Jay, male 41, my wife Lisa is 37 and we’re married for almost 18 years now. We also have a daughter, Eve, almost 17. I recently discovered this community and now I decided to get the courage to share about my situation, thinking that perhaps it would be somehow emotionally helpful...
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