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I agree with everything Tinwen said. Also related to offering a closed, "mono for now" relationship to E is your admittance that you were/are feeling codependent, overly emotionally and anxiously attached to him. So you might cling too tightly to him now, especially as you grieve moving on from...

"Based" "Based" is a slang term used by Gen Z to signify someone who is confidently in alignment with their true beliefs, regardless of how controversial or unorthodox they might be. It often serves as a compliment for being unapologetically oneself.

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Google your closest city, say, Cleveland, and "polyamory." I know Ohio is quite conservative, by and large, so good luck!

I'm not sure how this relates to polyamory? I mean, if you're sharing an apartment or house with one other person, the same courtesies could apply to a monogamous couple. I thought your question was going to be about trying to share a house with your partner and metamour, or two of your...

I'm glad you checked back in. Sorry you weren't getting notifications. Those things can be spotty. I know you're in S America, not Spain, but have you ever seen the fictional movie Vicki Christina Barcelona? It takes place in Spain and it's about polyamory. (It was written/directed by Woody...

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At 30 it's high time to be true to yourself and have definite healthy standards for whom you date. It looks like you have some self-respect and want to be treated with dignity, not as a second-class citizen. Also, 5 months of dating is not very long at all. So it's no huge loss to walk away...

Hi and welcome. You said: Rather than reinventing the wheel, I'd recommend you get your feet wet by heading over to our Golden Nuggets section. There you will find a list of reading resources for beginners, intermediate and seasoned polyamorists, as well as a podcast recommendation and even...

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I wanted to add, since this other guy was your friend first, and you told him intimate details about your life, does he not know that you and gf were seriously considering staying mono, moving in together, getting engaged and married and starting a family?? What makes him okay with exchanging...

Oh, good call, Tinwen, remembering the previous thread! Yeah. Yikes. Now gf is long-distance dating a friend of yours, iamv. You've lost your confidante. Maybe he was your go-to for talks about relationships, and now gf has "stolen" him, so to speak. Some poly people have a list of "messy...

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This is not a simple problem. But I am glad you, Xatu, have never actually gotten a negative comment or negative treatment! I was concerned after you said you are in a conservative area of S America, that you suffer under an extremely patriarchal culture, where most people, men and women, come...

Hi, I guess you're looking for a BDSM relationship. But this is a message board for polyamory, multiple loves, be they straight, gay, vanilla or kinky. We are also not a dating site. We are made for discussions around managing multiple love relationships, generally in real life, not just online...

I feel your pain. The sad fact is that coming out as polyamorous to all is pretty much impossible for some people, whether it's because of the demands of employment, or, in your case, a small, probably conservative town, with little tolerance for "eccentric" people. L is a public figure and...