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I live in a very economically depressed area. People here cannot afford to isolate any longer. They have not received their promised unemployment due to delays and break downs of the system and cannot afford to be off work any longer. People cannot feed their families or pay their bills which...

Honestly I do not think you will ever get a "joyous" yes from ypur wife. So your choices are stay in your marriage or split and you pursue polyamory. It would not be fair to bring children into an unhappy marriage. And if you think she will treat you any better when she has a child guess...

I worked in the corporate offices of an East Coast grocery chain for the last three years in the meat buyers offices while I took a break from my veterinary career due to burn out. Yes there is a food shortage of meat. We have the supply but the processing end of things has been hit hard...

I would be concerned that instead of a father figure they are looking for financial support... There are plenty of 20/30 something men even local 40 something men who would jump at the chance at a relationship with 2 hot bi babes. Why would they pursue someone long distance?

If you know everything Neil and are not poly, why are you here asking advice on a message board for people who are practicing, interested in, or faced with poly? You have gotten advice from people who have been practicing poly in many different forms for a long long time. Many have had multiple...

Yes I am. Both husbands work with minimal contact with others. Butch in a boiler house as a operator. He is the only one on duty in the plant. Murf works with automation, robotic partner, in an foundry. Me I have been at home with pay. There is little to no risk for us. We have had 10 mild...

Wow your husband is behaving like an ass. I too would love both my guys under one roof but it would make both my husbands very uncomfortable. They both like being kings of their own castle. Everyone's home should be their safe place. I do not have the right to force my wants upon others. If it...

I identity as only Dagferi. I do not need to label myself.

What the heck does this "lifestyle" mean? I have never been a part of a "scene." Yet here I am, with 9 years of practicing polyandry. I have never participated in group sex nor drug use. I have never been involved with other couples. Your situation sounds like swinging to me.

I am so sorry Bluebird. I do not know what to say... You are one strong lady.

Bluebird you are such a saint.. So is DarkKnight. There is no way I would put up with PunkRock's shenanigans or being such a sloppy hinge.

I love animals especially parrots. The other day I went to get bird food and the pet store had a lovely little parrot.I already have one of the same species and love that particular kind a lot. Of course I stopped and talked to her. The employees said she is shy and doesn't like strangers...

No one should be reading messages not meant for them.

I ignore it. I have no time or resources for another partner. I do not even entertain the idea by flirting with others. I do not want to lead someone on who is hoping for moe.

If it is not a joyous yes from all sides then it probably is not a good idea to move in. I split my time 50/50 between my husbands. When my kids were little the used to travel with me a lot. Why the push to move in?

I agree with Mags.

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You say that you two want to have children together... Think of this issue.... How are you going to feel if you have children together and hia family excludes or treats your kids less than or as if they do not exist or a dirty secret. We know you are not ok with it but how is going to make a...

Sometimes love is not enough.... Why keep torturing yourself by staying in a relationship that doesn't work for you? Yes break ups hurt but that pain is only temporary while you current situation keeps dragging the pain on and on.

My simple answer is MrJ is a sloppy hinge. MsL's drama can be summed up as not your circus not your monkey. She is his issue to deal with. Just because they are in a relationship does not mean it is your problem.