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I do not practice relationship hierarchy. Neither of my partners are secondary to the other.

I disagree. The saying is very appropriate to polyamory.. In my world all my partners get equal footing in my life. I have never treated Murf or any man I have dated as second fiddle to Butch. Butch's wants needs or drama has never influced how another partner was treated in my life. I have...

I split my time 50/50 between two seperate homes with both husbands. I live with both just not under the same roof. It is no different than being married to someone who travels for work.

My husbands go years without seeing or interacting with each other. They just are not friendly with each other. When they do find themselves in each others company they act like mature adults. While I would like them to hang out more it is not what they want so I do not force the issue.

Never make someone a priority who treats you as an option.

I have been married to Butch 17 years. Been actively poly the last 10 years. I have been with Murf for 6 of those. Both my guys are monogamous. I have no relationship drama.

I split my time as close to 50/50 as I can between the seperate homes I share with each of my husbands.

Move out ASAP. This situation in not going to get better anytime soon.

Ponytail needs to work on his insecurity on his own. It is not your job to manage that for him.

I agree with what others have said. The only thing I will add is maybe your partner is homosexual not bisexual.

There is an old saying to thine own self be true. Please do not be afraid to stand up for yourself. Do not be afraid to ask for what you need in a relationship. It is better to be single than caught in a relationship that causes you pain.

Stop rehashing what went on... Stop trying to blame her for what went on during your relationship. You let her know loud and clear that she was an option not a priority in your life why would she make you a priority. As the old saying goes... Never make someone a priority that treats you as an...

I prefer to meet partners in real life. Too much garabge to wade through with online dating.

Texting me random funny thoughts just because would piss me off. I am a busy person. I would find the random messages and texts of random conversations about nothing meaningless. I am an INTJ personality type. I do not mind a once a day hey how are you and what's going on conversation. But not...

Every person is different. Some folks need a lot of contact. Others are happy with a few days a week. Me I do not like to be smothered with attention. I am busy and do not like making small talk just for small talks sake. I sometimes go a day or two without texting or talking to one of my...

If she is like me, and she sounds like she is, when I end a relationship I treat it like ripping off a bandaid. I just want it done and over with. For goodness sake she called you. You talked for 20 twenty minutes. She didn't ghost on you. She didn't break up with you via text or email. Please...

For me it will be a deal breaker and I would cut you loose. I have very little tolerance for drama (I have enough other issues and stressors in my life.) and I would not be a part of adding further fuel to an unhappy marriage. To be blunt I wouldn't be with someone who disrespects both his...

Straight people can be poly. I am as heterosexual as they come and I am poly. Why would your potiental partner need to be attractive to your husband? Poly does not mean group sex or triads. Neither of my husbands have anything to do with the other. BTW they are both very hetero and both are...

I am highly allergic to the Solanaceae family of plants. Aka the Nightshades. I am extremely allergic to tobacco and a severe asthmatic. So much so that I have to wear a mask in public when there is a risk of coming in contact with a smoker and I have a service dog to help me avoid surfaces with...

No her anger was directed at him. She wanted to ruin his life. He told a mutual friend that I was the best thing that ever happened to him and he wanted to commit to me for the long run. Murf was a self proclaimed bachelor. He was never going to get married, live with anyone, or etc. She spent 4...