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I would hope a lack of understanding the dynamics of your relationship wouldn't detract from the fact that having to cancel long awaited plans sucks! I'm sorry for you guys!

BB, Alice is ONLY having sex with you because of Honey.

I'm so sorry.

I'm with the others who have noticed that you don't seem to consider what your wife wants. At all.

Blogs are supposed to be SAFE spaces, SEASONED.

I am sorry you are hurting. Others will come along with advice.

I think Kevin and Fallen Angelina *may* have a point about race being a factor here. However, there is no way for us to know, as we have really no evidence. It's a possibility, though. No, you are not doing poly "wrong."

Having her move in is CRAZY!

Polynatural, what did you mean by that remark to Kevin? "You're funny?"

The OP was actually treating his wife like the second-class citizen. I think he just came here to vent and get some sympathy. Since things didn't turn out that way, he disappeared.

Yeah, Jacob, when you mentioned that you didn't want your girlfriend to date anyone else, and you also mentioned that you basically treated your girlfriend better than your wife, you lost me. What possible reason would your girlfriend want to come live with you and your wife? You didn't...

Martinus, you're just bound and determined to do what you want to do. Like talking to a brick wall.

I agree that Angelina was trying to advise the OP to focus on what THEY want rather than just on how to accomodate their partner.

SeasonedPoly has some good points, but I have a feeling this guy, once he's ensconced into your house, may be difficult to remove. It's not an issue at the moment, but you need to think of protecting yourself as well. You don't want to walk into your house and find that everything you own is...

I think this whole thing is going WAY too fast. Where's the fire?

Glad to hear it! BUT, don't negate or downplay your feelings. Of course, we weren't there, so Zen may very well been being a complete asshat (or, maybe, not so much.) In any case, don't just brush your feelings and wants aside. I'm so happy you feel better!

I'm sorry, Spork.

I LOVE Father Ted!

Bibble, you are going to be hard-pressed to find anyone on here who thinks your desire for that information is reasonable. I don't know where you got the idea that this is an uncommon "boundary" in poly. Swinging, maybe; but I'm not sure. It seems as if you don't consider your girlfriend's...

OP, your attitude towards your meta reeks of resentment, though you deny it. You are only hearing (reading) what you want to. It was a BAD IDEA to spend the weekend at their house. If you don't want to hear snide remarks, don't put yourself in a position to hear them. If your meta is truly...