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I am pretty much done with being poly for a bit not forever just till my husband and I are able to work out our issues. Because right now I am furious. I get that feelings develop it is a part of being human but to act this way towards your wife the person you said youd spend forever with is...

Yes they started today we found out but not anywhere near enough til December/January time frame. They only paid him half of he $700 he is supposed to be getting which they should've paid twice as much so we are having to figure out and go around with them on what the hell happened. And I pretty...

I have now been given the difficult choice after another talk of either hurting everyone and us going back to monogamy for awhile, letting them date with my hard limits and risking losing him because they don't follow them, or calling it off like I wanted in the first place for a few months...

I talked to him and he pretty much threw a fit saying if I wanted it it could happen but he wouldn't be happy. So just for the sake of saving me stress right now I gave them very hard limits and told him and her of they were crossed I was done and gone.

I have no clue. I ask him how that relates and he always says he had to sit there and go through the "jealousy" but he overcame it. Pretty much even with me spelling it out for him what all I want I am jealous.

Yeah. I am trying to push through since he is being this way til we get our own house but being pregnant my emotions are not liking it. I tried talking to him again and he brought up he's struggled with a few of my boyfriends and today she told him she loves us both. I don't doubt he loves me...

It makes me feel horrible for asking for a simple request. I have been trying to push feelings aside and let him be happy and everything and I am pretty much at my last straw with how he is treating me.

We are looking for houses to rent we are just waiting on the VA to start his disability pay. So that is being covered it is just the waiting for the money to start coming in so we are able to cover the deposits and rent and such. I have made my requests specific and still gotten looked at like I...

Sadly at this point in time no it isn't. I am plagued with morning sickness out the wazoo right now and flying across country would be more stress as well as staying with family.

I have tried asking both ways and still get the same answer. I am not wanting him to completely end the relationship, because I want to date her as well. I would just like to focus on us since we just had a big change in our lives. It is not about our children at all. He does everything he needs...

Little back story before I get to my question My husband and I recently moved to AZ and found out we are pregnant. We moved in with the first couple we ever swung with and became best freinds with. At least until my husbands VA money kicks in and we can find a place. We have lived with them for...

My husband and I just moved to AZ and we posted an ad on craigslist looking for freinds and potential partners. Got another dumbass who emailed me saying my ad was going to be reported to CPS because I am pregnant. I am laughing so hard. Do it dude. Please I need a good laugh. That way I can...

Yeah we like to sit down before we date anyone (we the person together first they know this upfront) and discuss our boundaries I guess you can call them, and we also ask if they have anything to add. Because we like to have everyone on good terms with eachother and friendly so this helps alot...

No we do expect some privacy I have edited the post to better explain somethings. We just like people to be honest and be able to talk to both of us or whoever they are with so that if there are issues they can be talked about and resolved. Our relationship is built on communication and that is...

I am just going to leave this thread alone I am tired of having to feel like I am defending our way of poly. Besides like I said we found out what was going on anyways and after talking to him found out I was just a side piece used for sex so whatever. I don't have the patience for this right...

Well since my other thread seems to be becoming a big debate. I was curious as to how others have their relationships set up? My husband and I have rules that not only do we follow but also ask our partners to follow. They aren't anything crazy just more some general respect type rules. We don't...

We only tried once and didn't like it at all that is why we don't do it now.

Exactly we tried dating a couple who didn't care who their main significant didn't care who they dated. I have never seen more fights in a poly marriage. There were always comments coming from someone about "who" and "where" they were going, and how they felt the other partner wasn't being...

I talked to him today and then we found out he is seeing someone else and didn't tell us. So he pretty much didn't follow the honesty rule :( And I love how we have our rules and relationships set up. It really helps us weed out who is in it for not just a relationship with one of us but both of...

We do practice safe sex and get tested no matter what. We just like knowing how many partners our partners have in case anything ever happened. And I just found out the reason why he was backing off so no more need for the post. And my husband and I set it up this way because it works for us. I...