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    How do you handle being the obvious second fiddle

    Multiple avenues: they told me multiple times in different ways that their other partner was their best friend and the person they were closest to; this partner knew about our relationship bumps, but I didn't know anything sensitive about them in return; this person cancelled time together to...
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    How do you handle being the obvious second fiddle

    I know that there is no equality in polyamory and that hierarchy exists in some way shape or form, even if you're practicing RA. So someone is bound to be second favorite or secondary - in terms of how much time that person gets, the obvious affection one partner might receive over another, how...
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    The experiment continues

    I hope I can look back on this time someday and feel like our relationship and what I learned from it was worth it and accept this ending, but right now I feel like I've lost a great love in my life and am unsure of all the ways I contributed to it. Sigh.
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    The experiment continues

    Hi, I'm Max and I'm 34 and identify as non-binary. I was just dumped in my first poly relationship and am seeking a space to learn and hear other's perspectives on this style of relationship and see if I want to try again someday when my heart is a little less bruised up.
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