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Definitely sounds like Maca has been separated from his family for too long. Notes for the eventual move: LR needs lots of sunshine Maca needs his family. No more extended jobs away from home.

My husband overloads the washer to and it drives me bat shit crazy, BUT I have had to learn to just accept it. He washes, I fold - so I just am extra vigilant to watch for items that might need to be re-washed (especially if they are mine). It's one of those things that really isn't worth...

Hugs!

Obviously the ex and his childhood did some horrible things to him. He spent 27 years being trained not to ask for sex, breaking that habit and mindset will take time and a conscious effort from him and likely some help from your therapist to change that. He's probably lying in bed many nights...

I love this!

I don't know about the laws, but after visiting TN last month, I would move there for the sole reason that my sinuses were happy and I could breath. I know this not at all isn't helpful :D

Maybe next time, just ask for what you want. Don't ask why he didn't do something. If you want him to hug you, say "Please hug me". If you not getting enough kisses, initiate some yourself. Sometimes I like the kisses and other times not so much. Both my husband and I tend to be submissive in...

Not sure I wouldn't have said that in your situation. Yes, I have gotten to the place where I can roll my eyes, BUT I will not stand for false accusations. Sometimes I worry that I can roll my eyes at stuff and wonder why I'm not more bothered by it.

((hugs!))

There is a life stories/blog section here that I think you might find useful to write down random thoughts and events you want to share in detail. There is different rules with how others can/can't respond. While the Poly Relationship Corner and General Poly sections is more for questions and...

You might find this book helpful: Divine Sex:liberating sex from religious tradition-Philo Thelos

I don't quite understand why you keep sharing all the lists of things you have said and what his response was, from conversations that took place 8 years ago (did you write it all down so you could hold it over his head or something), as a defense against counseling. To me, it just enforces my...

WOW! REALLY? So, don't work on the communication issues you have with Ray, just move in a lover... Oh yeah, a real therapist would call you on your own shit! Can't have that, can we? It's so much easier to ignore all the real problems and just get more sex. I agree with a previous poster, this...

Seriously, it would not occur to me to keep moving a big TV from one room to another. For once special event like a party or something maybe, but not just because others are gone.

Damn assumptions and misinterpretations will get you every time - Hate those.;)

I read it and I agree with KDT. I understand your need to take it down and am glad I got to read it. It really hit home for me this morning.

I should be freaking out! OK, so the husband and I finally had the "come to Jesus" poly discussion. While trying to solve some of his phone issues I came across a fb pm, which confirmed what I had suspected for some time, he's been having an affair. I've suspected this kind of thing for years...

Why do things like to hit in waves? Sucks! Glad your able to be there for your friend, such a tragedy.

What I've seen works best when dealing with "family": You and your husband decide how your going to explain things to each family. He deals with his family, then you deal with yours, etc. It must be made clear that the extended family MUST treat the kids and anyone else you decide to...

The issues with your husband blowing off your concerns and ignoring your needs has NOTHING to do with sex. This is a relationship issue that would have presented itself even if you two were monogamous. If it wasn't his gf it would have been something different. This is not to say that it's not...