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How Do You Bring This Up With a "True Mono"? Okay, as a woman who loves both genders and all variations thereof, but strongly prefers vaginas to penises, I am facing a dilemma. I am in a mono relationship with the world's most mono guy. He is older and very traditional in a lot of ways, and I...

What she said! speaking as someone who had to go through the whole sorting out of sexual orientation: if you love and desire your bf at all in a sexual way, then the simple fact that he is MALE means you are not lesbian. There are several sexual orientations that include attraction to both...

Reading your original post, I bet you have one of two things going on here. Either you got ahold of a woman-hating jerk who really just wants to have the adoration of NRE from as many women as possible. Or you have a genuinely poly man who has been indoctrinated to believe that having...

Wow honey! This is unbeivable. He should consider himself lucky that all you did was cry. (I would have beat him upside the head) Reading this kind of post makes me angry for two reasons. First, his whole attitude about sex seems very misogynistic. Why does he automatically assume that two...

One of the quinessential qualities of romantic love is the risk of getting hurt. Granted, loving more people makes the odds of getting hurt go up, mathematically speaking. But from what you are saying about your relationship contraction and exploration of who you are emotionally, I think you...

Wow, I love reading through this! It gives me lots of a ideas and it's very inspiring. As for myself, I think my ideal relationship would be to have one of two situations (keep in mind, I am not single lol): Option 1: An established couple (preferably with children) brings me in as a...

Well, I think you are identifying problems and that is the first step to solving them. I am curious about one other thing. I here about her nights out with E where it is them alone. Where are the nights out with you? You and she a primaries, yes? Then there should be a night each week that is...

I have to agree with the above. Probably there is some underlying problem that has absolutely nothing to do with E. Were there jealousy issues to begin with? Were there sexual issues? Were there communication issues? Were there disagreements about life goals? Were there pre-existing...

Breaking up is always hard no matter how it happens. I have had to break up from both of the supposed triangles I was in because they were rapidly becoming Vees with me as the hinge. 0_0 not something I am up for. When I break up with someone I cut ties for about 6-9 months. Then, if they...

I agree! I identify as a dominant. To me, the submissive's right to retract their submission at any time is the most important rule of the whole arrangement. If I had a submissive who couldn't retract their submission, then I would feel like a worthless Domme. What kind of worthless, ugly wretch...

LOL I think you and I just must have very different minds because everything I post almost seemed to provoke a negative/corrective response from you. But that's okay. :) Takes all types to make a world. :)

This is intended to be for fun; not a guy bashing session. lol What are some of the things that most men seem to consistently be taught about meing "manly"? (Especially the things that baffle us ladies.) I would say a couple of these things are; 1. Nothing I agree to do while drunk, in...

Kitty, I totally agree with you about the "Man Code" book. I would love to burn it and all the rules you mentioned. I also think that book contains the two rules that annoy me most in it; 1. When a woman talks about her problems, she wants you to interrupt with possible solutions. 2. You...

Lol again... I can't tell. On the one hand, if you are joking, I don't want to jump your shit, proverbially. On the other hand, if you are serious, the things you are recommending seem misogynistic. I can thoroughly assure every man here that bigger does NOT always mean BETTER. 0_0 In fact...

I just have to ask something... Statistically (roughly, and since 2009) 11% of females born females identify themselves as bisexual or lesbian. 10% of males identify themselves as bisexual or gay. Therefore, I have to ask; WHY in poly are nearly all the men I have met hetero-sexual? I...

I can't tell if you are joking and I should laugh or if you are serious and I should be offended. 0_0

Penis size is really nearly irrelevant. It's not how big of a tool you have, it's how good you BOTH are at using it. :)

In fairness, sex addiction can be said to exsist in that the addiction to endorphins and other brain chemicals is seen In others behavior so why not in sex? But I think the sex therapist is a great idea. She should be able t help you sort out some of the issues. :)

Thank you for commenting. :) Yes I am getting something truly amazing out of this relationship... mainly that this man is the only person I have ever met who really seems to 'get' me. Most people get 15%-25% of me. He gets 99%. And if poly is the one thing he doesn't understand, I can...

aw... kids are a blessings most of the time. :) I don't have any myself but my boyfriend does. I am hoping to have one of my own someday. Do you have any children of your own?