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  1. Erosa

    AH!! I understand! as far as virgins go, I tend to agree! In fact, I don't understand why...

    AH!! I understand! as far as virgins go, I tend to agree! In fact, I don't understand why any man would be delighted by the prospect of 72 virgins waiting for them would be anything like heaven. 0_0 I always say Gimme 72 H*es who know what the heck they are doing! LOL! ANd I have to agree...
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    Hey there, I just wanted to say that I really felt connected with what you said in the Lonely...

    Hey there, I just wanted to say that I really felt connected with what you said in the Lonely Unicorn thread. I met so many couple who expected me to be the magic pill that fixed their failing love or sex life. Or worse, couples who HATED each other and just wanted to use me as a person to...
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    My heart so goes out to you. *hugs* :'( I had a similar experience when I was a unicorn. And it's heartbreaking to see yourself give love and get used in return. Don't give up though. I really do believe that there is a couple out there for you. *hugs* Tag my page anytime. :)
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    Hello there! :) Yes, I would love to chat on yahoo sometime. :) my handle is domminadelight...

    Hello there! :) Yes, I would love to chat on yahoo sometime. :) my handle is domminadelight on yahoo messenger. :)
  5. Erosa

    LOL! Thank you! I honestly didn't think about that. I just picked the female form of the name...

    LOL! Thank you! I honestly didn't think about that. I just picked the female form of the name Eros. lol May I ask how you picked your name? I know a white unicorn in poly is a single BI woman, who wants to be secondary to a heterosexual couple. So is there a significance to the color...
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    We may have met her!!

    Best of luck to all of you! :)
  7. Erosa

    Where to Start?

    Wow, reading this it sounds like you have a lot on your plate. Maybe the biggest thing here ( something i personally am working with in my own life) is defining 1. What you really want to come of this. 2. How important each component of what you want is. Once you know that it will be so much...
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    Balance the Paradox

    This is maybe a bit of an odd blog. But I think if i write some of my feelings and thoughts out it will help me. I made the choice back in Dec of 2010 to connect with a man who wanted only a mono relationship on both ends. Since that time, he and I have been through a lot of ups and downs...
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    The white unicorn.

    Best of luck in your search for a unicorn. ;) and welcome aboard!
  10. Erosa

    Feeling unwanted

    Wow, this is a tough situation. I work with a lot of women in their relationship issues, and I guess what i would tell you is that you have to consider everything that has to go into his day. Men tend to be less chatty than us ladies anyway. But considering that he has his job, family...
  11. Erosa

    A date...

    Speaking from the perspective of a woman who has been on dating sights, I have to say the right time to tell someone you are poly is on your initial profile. First, it is honest. But second, you are not looking for a non-poly relationship anymore than the monos who see your profile are looking...
  12. Erosa

    Just have to say: I love your screen name!

    Just have to say: I love your screen name!
  13. Erosa

    Re introing myself....

    This may seem silly.... But i was gone from the forum for so long that I feel i should say hi again. I joined this site about.... Oh gosh... Almost 18months ago i think? At the time i was merely very curious about poly and what I might mean in my life. Being a pansexual and naturally...
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    Novel Forumla For Poly?

    Lol red pepper I like that! Really I am looking for idealized situations. I do want realism, but only realism. This is fantasy, for the poly minded. :) Having been a unicorn once myself, I know the extreme unlikelihood of a couple meeting an actual unicorn. Most women (or men) worth having...
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    Novel Forumla For Poly?

    Okay, some of you (if you have been here a loooooong time and remember me) know that I am a writer of sorts. Right now, I am working on an idea for a sequence of poly-based romance books. I am actaully looking to get these published, so I need a good, consistant basic formula for the romantic...
  16. Erosa

    Helping a cheater change - an exercise in futility?

    For me, i have always felt that cheating means the same in a relationship is it does in monopoly or chequers. " breaking the rules" If you step outside of the established rules of your relationship, then you have cheated. I would say this applies not only to love and sex but to money, health...
  17. Erosa

    Struggling

    Wow. After reading this, I have to say, I don't think poly is actually what you are dealing with. You said your wife doesn't feel excited by you? That, to me, sounds like there is some underlying problem in the relationship between you and your wife. There is an old business principle: when a...
  18. Erosa

    Mono Woman Trying to Maintain Relationship with Poly Partner

    Hello honey! Welcome and though i have been a very inactive member for a little while. (naughty me!) I am very glad you are here. :) For my part, as a hardwired poly, but currently in an exclusively mono relationship, I can assure you that your love's being poly in no way diminishes his love...
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    Poly and Magick

    I have worked with magic for several years, mainly with energy work basics. Up until now i have never had to try any magic that involved a poly relationship. A couple has asked me to use magic to help bring them their mutual poly soulmate. Are there any practitioners who could help me with...
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    How to handle this?

    Sounds like you made a good choice :) best of luck finding a couple who fits your relationship better! :)
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