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Hello and *hugs* I am sorry to hear that you are coming from a very difficult place right now. I hope that this board will be a source of healing and help to you. And though you don't know me, feel free to message anytime. I am happy to provide a listening ear and shoulder to cry on.

I like to read mysteries, thrillers, some romances. I also like to write the same, and sometimes romance. :) What about yourself?

First of all, You are not stupid. You simply under estemated the power of connection, chemestry, and love. This is painful but I do believe you can recover from it.

I am sad to say that I am usually wary of Christian combinations of poly because they usually, in my opinion, make the man the recipient of lots of sexual attention and domestic power, while the women are obligated to obey. Not to start and argument at all to the thread starter-- :) I know not...

I guess I'm a sincerely identifying 'nothing'. Not becuase I have ambiguous beliefs (such as a true agnostic) but becuase I have found that every single group I got involved with has the same desire to hold on to power and bash other groups. Christians hate athiests, who think pagans are...

^^ oh dear... I didn't mean to make you think you caused upset so if I did I most sincerely apologize. :( I was merely concerned and voicing my curiosity in that first post. Also, I think a BDSM section would be lovely! I'd love to learn more about it as I have been told I'm...

For someone as innocent as me they should have added a 'WTF IS THAT?' pin. LOL Had fun filling it out though.

I read this and though I have heard of subs 'zoning out'... I have to say that I was a bit horrified here. Please understand that I'm not making any judgement here but the science of psychology does states that going into a body dissosiative state can lead to MAJOR mental and personality...

The biggest red flags I have found are these two: 1) Secretive or obsessed with 'privacy.' Someone who makes the consequences for talking about 'their' business (even if it's also YOUR business) unbearably emotionally high. 2) Someone who doesn't want people to know they are taken. I don't...

I was somewhat puzzled by your situation until I saw that you have survived abuse. I am a survivor of abuse myself and I can tell you that it deeply affects even things you cannot see in yourself. One of these things is the constant search for 'safety.' As a child, you never felt 'secure,'...

I have no personal background in stripping other than for those I'm in a relationship with. Also, I would add, I do not judge strippers who strip for the joy of showing their lovely bodies and the energy of it. But I have several friends who strip because, quite frankly, they are lazy and...

Yes! I'm mythical and mysterious! LOL I'm glad I sparked your curiosity to learn more. This whole site is a world of new information to me. 0_0

If my very novice opinion counts, I would say that 'too many' is when you start to feel over-stretched. The capacity for love may be absolutely infinite. But the ability to spend adequate time and affection on each lover is something that will vary from person to person and lifestyle to...

I had to struggle with this kind of issue myself. I still struggling sometimes. But you have to remember that you are not 'who' you ARE, you are 'who' you CHOOSE to be. Make yourself into what you desire to be, and eventually things will focus. ((hugs)) I hope things get better for you.

^^ Thank you and I appriciate you taking time to read this. I would also like to add to everyone here that this all is in my PAST. I was merely trying to give everyone an idea of where I am coming from. I was a bit hurt today to be told that I was disturbed and disfunctional (presumably...

Hello there. :) I saw your post in my thread in the North America section. PM me if you like. :)

Non sexual affection is perfectly normal. It's part of foreplay but also part of expression of acceptance and trust. It's just as important as sexual affection and most people (even the menfolk) crave it just as much as the sex. So I think it's perfectly normal that you'd want this. :)

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Hello there. Thought I'd drop you a line and say hello. How are you?

LOL! There's your message. You have to go to my profil and post a message or I don't get it. LOL But yes, new friends are always good. Btw, is your avatar a photo of you? I like your hair! :)