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Poly/Mono - this one is easy - I'm poly. Whether I am in one relationship, no relationships, or multiple relationships - I was poly before that word was accepted in the common lexicon - I was poly before I had romantic feelings for anyone - I was poly before I had sex - I realized I was poly...

Observations of myself: Cis/Trans - my gender-assigned-at-birth and my gender-identity match, so I am a cis-female - my gender-identity is not particularly important to me and feels more like an accident of biology * I am fine with the body I live in, it's mine, I use it to enjoy certain...

I know I have pondered on this before...but, in updating my sig I am, yet AGAIN, contemplating labels - not because labels themselves are important (I think that they are just short-hand - if it comes into play IRL then an actual conversation has to happen) but because I think that contemplating...

Yay!!! HAPPYYY!!! So glad to here that things are coming together for you so well! JaneQ

I was in a decade long MFM Vee (the boys were straight and not sexually involved with each other - but would sometimes be sexual with me at the same time, as well as one-on-one with me). We were open in that they were free to seek other women, but so was I (I am bisexual) - but mostly it was...

Due to early adolescent experiences ... I have always been afraid of partners "catching the feels" excessively - so I had a "Rule" about never sleeping with (having sex with) the same person more than 3 times (which meant 2 times - since I would always want to keep one in "reserve" - in case of...

Well...THAT was fun while it lasted (3 months)... MrClean found himself a new love-interest, so we are on hiatus. I'm not convinced that it is a perfect match...HE has already identified two "red flags" - 1.) She has only been separated from her husband of 20 years for 2.5 months, and 2.) the...

Hello and Welcome! You're doing just fine in the Introducing Yourself department. You can feel free to go as deep as you want into things here - we tend to be a pretty loquatious lot, so long posts are not generally a problem - occasionally people run up against the 10,000 word limit per post...

So, as a polywoman who is a fan of threesomes/group sex (of all varieties but also specifically MFM) - to me? It feels absolutely awesome!. I feel like the sexiest woman on the fucking PLANET! (It's like a treat, a birthday favor - I wouldn't want it to be the ONLY sex I get, I like 1:1 as...

copy and paste: (Yes, I have posted this before!) Hello, attractive couple! Welcome to polyamory.com - I hope you find a lot of useful info here. Since no one else (except TX - Hi!!!) has been by to comment, I should probably let you know that what it appears you are looking for (a single...

This. During my relationship with Ex-Dude MrS would get agitated when Ex-Dude and I would argue - which, TBH, was a frequent occurance - we are both argumentative people, MrS is not. (My mother had the same issue when Dad and I would argue, we thought we were having a "discussion" and she...

So, curiously enough, me, MrS, and MrClean were all present at a solemn social gathering a day or two ago. As part of a text interchange after that MrClean says,"I feel awkward in public not in a terrible way...At all. I think you might too..." My response: "Ah. I don't think that I feel...

I wrote about how MrS and I came to be married despite differing views in Journey Blog here: Marriage Discussion Coming up on 26 years later - meh, I wouldn't do it again. Don't get me wrong - IF I was going to be married, then MrS is definitely the person I would choose to be married to! But...

Ultimately, you are only responsible for your own behaviour - you cannot control what other people do. However, you do get to decide whether you continue to participate in a relationship (of whatever degree) with someone who is not behaving it what you feel is an unethical manner. People may...

I'm glad to hear that you are feeling better! I am just getting over my first (documented) case of Covid. Vaxxed and Boosted it was mostly a head cold although I am still feeling a bit run down. MrS tested positive but didn't develop any symptoms. MrClean, who I had seen 3 days prior...

[snip] I would hold onto it for therapy. A lot of this is about Robert, but this is written to your wife, NOT to Robert. I would recommend sticking to her and her behaviors. You have withdrawn consent to participate in an open/poly arrangement. If she has agreed to stop, but continued anyway...

I think that I may understand some pieces of this. My Ex-Dude would say that he only wanted to date Happily Married Women. They already knew how to be in a relationship and it seemed less likely they would want to ride the relationship escalator further than he wanted to go. Since you know...

Glad to here that the convo went well! My first solo vacation with Dude was Burning Man - and that was 6 years in (and MrS had no interest in going). That was intense for other reasons. MrS and I travel together and we 3 travelled together. I have also had platonic friend vacations, as has...

This is a common discussion on both the Poly and the (female) Bisexual boards (lesbians won't date us because we interact with penises voluntarily (at times - and many of us have interacted with penises involuntarily at times - rape is, unfortunately, such a common occurance that MANY of us...

Just a quick post to reference a post I just made in another thread that recaps MrS's "Epiphany" in case I want to reference it later: "Epiphany" Recap PS. I didn't have any sort of discussion with MrClean about what makes him uncomfortable in public or in front of MrS - I didn't even take a...