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my thoughts... This. Dinged, the reason I requested you to not show the photos to others, I mentioned in my earlier post, because of the later damage that would do, or the very real possibility of adding complications now to the emotional/mental state of your daughter's mother. Not because I...

Just wanted to quickly jump in on this one :D Don't know what the lay of the land is anywhere else... but over here a de facto relationship can be claimed after 12 months of residing together... and separation must be maintained for 12 months after that for it to be considered final... so for...

*mods* the two threads I want to combine are "Not sure of where to go from here..." and this one... New name: Sifting through the ashes... relocting to Life stories and Blogs please... thanking whoever does it :D

LOL... Thanks, hugs much appreciated... I did snigger at the beautiful sensual goddess comment... :( Normally I just try to remove any description of myself from my self talk... I have one photo taken in the last 4 years in which I can look at myself and say I can see the real me in it...

Thanks NYC - I'll give it a whirl... I guess I wasn't clear enough in my post - I am not truly offended by the change in WW's thinking pattern... I know he is working through his own stuff, and what he is perceiving as betrayal? by T is where his thoughts are coming from... I wish he didn't see...

So now I am at yet another stage of bitchiness in this ongoing quest to wrap my head around this thing that is but isn't.... I have decided that right now I am somewhat offended by the change in WW's attitude... 6 months ago he was very much... I can understand how he would fall in love with...

LOL! New-found awesomeness. I have been following your posts too. I very much admire the process you are undertaking. It is inspiring to read along as you go.

Big happy squeezy hugs for you... sounds like a good place to be :D

yet another whine *sigh* I suck at the whole not squishing myself down thing... I utterly loathe the thought of hurting WW consciously... as in - I know what I have to say will hurt him... so I don't say it. So he doesn't know that I am struggling daily with the need to talk to T still...

Hey Sage - just letting you know that I will definitely be down on the 23rd... likely I will be available for brunch/morning tea on the 23rd...

Yet more 'two cents' It sounds like your resolve is firming up there. Take the time, look around. You're welcome to read my thread and see where we stand (my fiance is the mono in our relationship), and see our boundaries. Redpepper and Mono also have very clear boundaries. Sage has a blog at...

Got a giggle from some posts by Mono... Thx btw... very much needed and came out of the blue :D

THIS. In all your posts your needs and wants also seem to take a backseat. This is a huge life-changing thing happening here. Take some time and really really figure that one out too.

It does. However, acting out what he 'thinks he wants' before he knows who he is and that what he wants is what is right for him, is not a great idea. not only is he gambling with your relationship, he is playing with someone else's heart too, not to mention any children caught up in it. He...

Where in all of that is his care and compassion for you and your relationship with him? I get completely that you love him, and want HIM to be happy. Where is his return of that? He won't slow down? He won't be careful? WTF is going on there with that? He is showing no respect for you...

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Only two months and talking babies?? BIG RED FLAG. I don't think your husband is thinking with his head here... NRE, perhaps? And your question of why with her and not with you is very very valid. Children are a huge commitment. Why after only two months is he willing to change his mind on...

My two cents... Your boyfriend finds it easier to hear about you being with another woman, than being with another man. Your boyfriend needs time to adjust to you having a relationship with another man. Give him that time. You are not being upfront and honest about doing things with other...

Regardless of what else happens and what she says at the moment, your daughter still loves her mother, and always will... As her remaining parent that she can trust, you MUST not disturb that bond. As hard as it is, you must protect it. I'm not saying you must encourage or nurture it at the...

Hugs, dh. I really feel for all of you. I'd probably hold off on the photo sharing, at least with the whole family. Maybe just whoever is really supportive to your daughter, so they have a clear understanding. Just my two cents. I hope everything goes okay for your daughter. I wish there was...