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Bolding added by me... This was a debate?? I thought debates had an opposing side? To me it came across as a rant... a tirade... with the audience trying to tell you that we, in general and to a point, agreed with most stuff and/or knew it already... and could ya please stop yelling at us...

sigh - in the third year of our LDR JEALOUS.... but we'll make up for it :eek: LOL

thumbs up for this one... same reasons too

It sounds a lot like you need some time out. I would hope that Bo respects your relationship enough to give it to you. To me, given the huge differentials in your posts, you NEED him to (for a defined period) give you and your relationship absolute precedence, particularly if Bess is to remain...

I think you need to slow down and really get introspective here. Your post is a little frantic... Take the time you need to figure out what you want, ideally, then figure out if what you want is something you are capable of working towards. Keep your wife involved in what you are doing. If she...

Good luck. Hugs in advance for the tough moments and GOOD LUCK. Did I mention... GOOOOD LUUUUCK :D

I want to go another tack here... *bolding added by me I found the comment about the OP being very attracted to her boyfriends new gf a significant one... is it possible their is some dual jealousy happening here? jealous of both of them? is there a possibility that a triad could form out of...

Step down off your soapbox a little here... whether or not we are 'coded' as a species to be monogamous or non-monogamous... it IS somewhat presumptious of you to come in here spouting these things as the be all end all truth of things... particularly on a board that is supportive of both poly...

Welcome, Mahogany. My two cents: you are grieving over the loss of what you thought your future was with Bo, just the two of you. You are probably very angry and hurt and feel betrayed by the fact he had a mistress and was therefore cheating on you. You are grieving over the loss of your...

Glad it helped you RP :D your posts have helped me so much its about time i said something helpful :p LOL - we talked, and talked - well I typed, he listened and talked and i typed some more (bloody speech dysphasia... we tried a period where i refused to type when i was emotional in an attempt...

How did that conversation go? Will there be another such discussion with your daughter (not necessarily about the poly, but to deal with the issues there)? I'm glad to hear you guys are talking in depth.

A moment of recognition... Since my last post I have spent alot of time feeling 'grey'... and well... like a zombie. Today I have come to the realisation that I have been doing what I did in my marriage - I have been allowing myself to feel like the victim here, I have given over my power to...

THIS..... with bells on...

Just to quickly continue on the hijack topic, dinged, have you considered having you and your wife sit down with your daughter (as she is doing the snooping) and being upfront about what is happening? Surely the honesty and trust you guys show her, the respect and confidence you show in her as a...

*rueful smile* I really shouldn't post when I am in a whirlpool of despair :p I am not missing out on things, and yes it drives me crazy inside... but one thing I got out my marriage was the ability to continue my everyday life even while my insides are churning, I laugh, am happy, i still...

This. If it were as simple as a choice for me, it would be easy to make that choice.

Venting/Ranting/Letting the crazy talk out of my head :P wishing that this side of me was something i could set aside... wishing that the repressing of it didn't hurt just as much as repressing how i feel for T... all the while hoping/knowing that there will be something that gives at some...

LMAO (thanks for that image) :p RP - this link may help you somewhat... http://www.google.com/mobile/sync/

my two cents - not a lecture, and genuine curiosity and concern... For myself - I was not coming to Nycindies defense so much as trying to get across that she meant no harm... and was not attacking... "Do you honestly believe" can be said without a condescending tone? We are new to both of...

I haven't written poetry in a few years... I do have some works in development, however my inspiration has been sorely lacking with all the drama in my life stealing away my creativity... This however, is one my favourites that I wrote during the breakup of my marriage. Dragonlove. I lay...