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my two cents From your last post, I would think it within your right to ask Paul to set aside specific times for when he does 'band stuff' when you are around, and that the rest of the time is yours, no interruptions from Thecla during your time, at least for now, while you are adjusting...

Well said - both Loving Radiance and Grounded Spirit... I have nothing to add that would not sound trite next to their words of wisdom... hugs to you and I hope you find the peace in your heart to move forward a step at a time :)

If I may, jump in quickly again.... (Smilies people...) Sohuman, it seems to me that at this point you are looking for support, as well as direction (in the giving of advice - :pyour choice of course to take it)... The section called Life stories and blogs may have been more appropriate for...

Glad to hear your family are safe - we are down to one cousin missing... crossing our fingers for her... I am personally of the opinion that us Aussies and Kiwi's (I'm half and half so doubly so - how's that for a good ego day :D) are so amazingly awesome that 2012 is giving us a preview...

Hey Sage - sending you huge hugs, hope your family over in kiwiland have come through the earthquake unscathed - I have some extended family missing... immediate family over there are searching for them though and I expect to hear something soon...

Just a quick thought for now Choncordian - when using sarcasm/humor it can help to use the smilies to the right of the text typing box... or to simply "put in quotes" or other punctuation marks ~sarcasm~ :p for us poor fools out here on trigger points :D Just something i Have found very very...

I just want to jump in here with a question - I may or may not have asked it before - or somebody else might have - either way I can't find it or the answer on here at the moment... I need help here to understand something... From my perspective... A poly person feels the need/is able to...

the significance of the picture changing? and the use of msn? T is very similar to you NYCyndie - very very selective and careful about what he does in such a public forum... everything he does on facebook or MSN has a purpose or reason behind it - even if he is unsure exactly what that is...

So at some point after Yasi hit, T put a picture on facebook again (this is after specifically telling me that he has no friends on facebook, and that he would be giving us this space)... he then allowed me to see him change his picture (on msn) and add his sister to his MSN friends - (I was the...

Well, just to round it out and triple ditto it, I repeat myself: awesome people, and I count you all my friends *monster hugs* LOL Bunch of goofballs. Anyone else wanna join the lovefest (platonic lovefest, of course :p) happening here?

Thanks, both of you. I do try to be as unbiased and non-judgmental as I can, particularly with these subjects, as they can be so personal and easily trigger people. That, and I am, and have always been, of the view that it takes all kinds and that we are all here for a reasons, learning being...

bigtime hugs to you... bigtime hugs

Completely and utterly normal :D welcome and gday... howdy and hello... pull up a chair sit down and have a chat :D Oh I forgot to mention - good luck :D

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G'day there, pull up a chair and sit down have a gab with us... we don't bite :D mostly...

So happy for you, WhatamIdoing. Good to see you posting again. It's been a while for both of us. :D

Mono, picture a very small woman (also with red hair, jumping on the spot, kicking the dirt. "Gosh darn it! There goes all my hopes of understanding this phenomenon!" LOL Ah well, back to the drawing board. Your description sounds similar, not the same, but similar to what WW describes. I...

Sometimes the most loving path, for both of you, is to end the conflict and lovingly move away from each other. Its fairly obvious it won't be mutually loving as an ending... but all you can do is be loving on your side of things - but as relationships go Claudia is being physically abusive -...

Hmm... I still think my point is valid, as there is a loss involved that is directly correlated to the physical intimacy RP shares with someone else. I couldn't care less whether that boundary is 'right' or 'wrong.' The boundary exists. My goal is to understand why it exists, because without...

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