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  1. FlameKat

    Sex and its status

    Without worrying about whether or not the rules are rules, boundaries or common sense, they appear to be pretty standard to what a large majority of the posts I've read have used at the outset of their journeys. (I have not read every single post.) I wish you luck with the rest of your journey...
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    Word Association Game!

    Hai!!
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    Hi :) It's a long one!

    Hi JenAgain, Personally I would recommend bringing your husband here - explain to him how much this strikes a chord with you. And tell him all the things you told us :D then work from there together Hugs and welcome :D
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    Greetings, mythical beasts. We each have a question.

    Your question: No idea :D His question: Read through the forum, most people have added their stories to the information on here... Welcome :D
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    A new term maybe.

    Hey there GS :D I have to say I rather like your new term :D What you describe sounds very similar to the effect of my son's adjustment disorder... he has events which will trigger memories and insecurities and fears of his... his psychologist informed me that studies have shown that in his...
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    sifting through the ashes

    it's okay... WW hadn't read that post... and responded to it before he spoke to me... It's all hitting home a little hard right now... a lot of what if's popping up and wanting to put the brakes on and run the other way. We have talked and are on an even keel again - for now. WW is still...
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    A general discussion about redheads

    I'm a redhead - both ... assisted.... and naturally (strawberry blonde - I prefer my hair to be startling though)... To the stereotype - I am passionate, quick to anger - quick to forgive, otherwise generally bouncy and happy-go-lucky :P my pain tolerance is huge... although conversely my...
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    lol - thanks for pm'ing me about your response here :P yeah went through the bad weather okay -...

    lol - thanks for pm'ing me about your response here :P yeah went through the bad weather okay - spent it out on the lava plains out here taking pictures... i'll pm you my mobile number before I head down Brissy way - I'll be in the central city area too.
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    Myers Briggs and polyamory.

    Here's my result: I am an INFP Dominant: Introverted Feeling Auxiliary: Extraverted Intuition Tertiary: Introverted Sensing Inferior: Extraverted Thinking
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    Hi Sage - I was relieved to see you pop on... Brisbane isn't very pretty at the moment :P was...

    Hi Sage - I was relieved to see you pop on... Brisbane isn't very pretty at the moment :P was worried about you. I will be down there on the 9th 10th and 11th of Feb. If you would like to meet for a chat I should have some free time in the evening on the 10th or the morning of the 11th... Let...
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    sifting through the ashes

    !!!!!!!! We are going to have a talk !!!! T responded and the boys have sorted out that we will talk in about two weeks!!! (I am going away for a few days and if the talk goes badly WW doesn't want me stewing by myself in the middle of the outback with no communication to anyone and T is...
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    sifting through the ashes

    So... WW sent his email. T responded very quickly (within a few hours)... essentially agreeing that he had been behaving like an ass and for us to WW's email was not overly angry... it was to the point about hurts that had been done, and anger from those... but it was also quite plainly...
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    Word Association Game!

    chunder
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    Need Advice...sorry but I have no one else :(

    Mahogony, my partner is going through this as well. As the poly person in our relationship... I know my feelings will not change, and i have reassured my partner of that... but as much as I reassure - it will never be enough... the proof is in the pudding... at some point you will have to...
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    3 becomming one

    This is precisely what I have found... for myself... Positive energy is the bomb when it comes to clearing spaces and healing hearts... a happy family and home provides so much of that I find rituals to be unecessary and somewhat fake... although they do have their uses...
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    3 becomming one

    LOL - wow my maths is out... however i was looking at it from another perspective and used the wrong terminology as shorthand... the perspective i was using... was three groups of three... in the sense i was thinking... primary group of three focusing their energy being 'channelled' by a...
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    3 becomming one

    LOL roundabout post there :D but yes - I follow pagan beliefs and feel my partner I and our currently absent friend are anam cara - the way I explained it to them was that our soul had been split into three rather than two... I also follow the beliefs surrounding the power of three, but...
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    sifting through the ashes

    Mmmm I would be telling him anyway - we have a thing about me holding stuff in now... it's a really bad habit I got into while married and I am learning to let things out as they crop up... Doesn't make it any less insensitive though :P My problem is that I am really stewing over the...
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    sifting through the ashes

    Thanks RP - definitely frustrated any advice on how to work through this one? especially right now - I really don't want to add to WW's burdens right now... I know damn well he would see this as insensitive right now... and he'd be right... but I am really climbing walls here...
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