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I agree with what has been written. But I think it's also important to keep in mind, that it's damn near impossible to "sum up" any significant life concept into a sentence. A comic, by it's nature is a short blurb that somehow is meant to get across a large complicated life in a summed up...

At this point, just anything that will pay bills, so I don't end up on the street when all of this finally terminates, but hopefully something that will also allow me to continue my classes, because that is the key to being able to get a job I want, which is working as a professor of psychology...

I got the bike on the road today. It needs some work. Maca moved the mirrors (in order to get it into the house for winter) and I can't tighten the right one down where it belongs, so I certainly won't be hitting the highways. But I did take it around the corner. It felt FUCKING GREAT to be back...

I know, seriously! I enjoyed the opportunity to laugh over that one. My Costco card expired in January. In light of the drama, I don't have money to get it back. But that was freaking hilarious. YES, the crazies are coming out of the woodwork. It's freaking insane!

I can't handle much more. Today I logged into Facebook to find that Maca's ex-wife was digging around in my Facebook pictures and sharing pictures from my wedding with Maca. There's no logic or reasoning in this woman. She's an addict. She spent 12 years tormenting and torturing me; filing false...

I love my exes. Our relationships ended because there was some aspect that wasn't working for one or both of us; not for lack of love.

If you still need a mod-I'm online currently & even when I'm not you can send me a pm. I check them daily.

**Everyone has a right to their own opinion, and I am in no way attempting to suggest that anyone should agree with me. I am simply sharing a definition so that people can better understand why I do believe veto power is abusive. Additionally; I do NOT believe that telling your partner "I see...

Shortly and succinctly: I think it is abusive. If we are unable to function (for any reason) with the choices our partner is making (such as their choices of other partners); We have every right to make choices that alter how much we invest OURSELVES. We have every right to not have...

He doesn't have any friends. He has acquaintances. He doesn't trust anyone. The ones who know there is anything going on, know that "she wants a fuck buddy." They know nothing else. I happen to agree with you, but the rates of domestic violence in this state make it very clear that it's NOT the...

A large portion of the mono world, especially males, which makes up all of the people he socializes with. He does not associate with anyone poly except the 25 yo. The reality is that most people think it's perfectly reasonable to threaten other people when they *APPEAR* to be doing something you...

Monkeystyle, thanks for asking. Panther is doing okay. Keeping in mind, we've been friends for a quarter century. :) He lives about 50 miles away from me. But it just so happens that the college is about 5 miles past him. He was very direct and has a "keep it simple, stupid" attitude about...

Nothing. He is a nice guy and they got along fine the last 17 years Maca and I were together. (I have known Panther 25 yrs.) Maca got attitude because of his own insecurities. He flew into a control-freak mode and tried to go behind my back to negotiate with Panther about Panther videotaping...

Galagirl, thank you for reframing things into what I have accomplished. It's hard to see it sometimes. It does help.

When he lied and cheated and snuck around behind my back, this is what he wrote that he wanted. I negotiated honestly with him and we created a boundary agreement at that time. I followed it and didn't break it. That was January 2012. In September 2014, I brought up having a FWB (which was...

"What I want for our relationship" by Maca (circa 2012) 1. I want equality. Meaning, I want it to be acceptable and ok that I'm able to do and be what you are doing and being. If it's ok for you to have another love then it should be ok for me too. If it's ok for you to have sex with another...

Cleaning/Sorting/Separating In light of the obvious issues, I have been cleaning the house, sorting things that are OBVIOUSLY mine or his (high school yearbooks, clothing) and getting rid of stuff that is obviously not important to either of us (partial bottles of cleaner we never use, etc.)...

The depression is kicking my ass. Anxiety is under control, but the depression is hitting hard. I'm trying to stay on top of it. But that's not going so well.

I started the application process for the electrical apprenticeship today. I have to wait until I get my official transcripts in the mail before I can turn it in. But there's plenty of time. I think they have their next session of picking students for the program in November or December with...

So frustrated. Maca's attitude is "you chose a fuckbuddy over a husband so whatever the issues, this isn't what *I* wanted, it was YOUR choice." (large emphasis on I). My attitude is; Ok so we don't see things eye to eye-but every single step we make from the point that "I chose a...