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    Aren't most people poly, but in denial?

    Some poly people think that is the case, but it's a rather unfair and dismissive statement to make for those who are happily monogamous. There are plenty of naturally monogamous people who have successful, honest relationships and do not resort to cheating. And there are plenty of poly people...
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    help, before I loose my marrige...

    Alexbear, Sorry you are in this situation. Unfortunately, a lot of people "discover" poly AFTER they have cheated or when they are about to. They feel guilt over what they know is cheating and then start searching for some explanation that can ease their mind. then they have the "talk" with...
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    Bringing it up?

    Matia, You got more good advice. The only thing I would be careful on is that you already have a crush so he is going to probably feel like he is being pushed right from the start. And I agree with Gala Girl that your MC needs to recluse herself if she openly expresses negative feelings about...
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    Bringing it up?

    Matia, You are about to make a decision that is going to alter your relationship one way or the other so I would suggest you answer some tough questions FIRST for yourself. (1) Is you want or desire to enter into poly truly a want or a need??? (2) Have you exhausted therapy to try to enhance...
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    Looking for advice

    Then you answered the question. He is causing his own problem and distress in your relationship by not being willing to take some steps to ATTEMPT to alleviate the situation. He has the power to possibly make all the anger and resentment he is showing go away, and you certainly need to tell him...
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    Looking for advice

    CoupleQuestions I think you first have to answer one question for yourself. And that is,"if your husband decided to take meds and wanted sex, are you still going to want to be with other men???? It sounds like your mail reason for being here is because of lack of male sex partner (husband). He...
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