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HAC Very sorry to read this but how can you be surprised. Your wife has showed no remorse for multiple betrayals , only regret that she got caught and hadn’t thought of telling you before she “tried it out” in her own words . This make four betrayals unless you also backtracked on the absolutely...

Ting Of course there are two sides to any relationship story and no one here is going to know or believe everything because you are coming at it from your respective emotions now. But here are what seem to be the facts (1) HAC got introduced to non monogamy , poly or whatever you want to call...

Mags just put it pretty clearly Chef. Right now, unless you tell your husband you are on KIK with your boyfriend you are CHEATING. Hubby needs to know (1) you are doing this (2) where this person is if he thinks you are not planning to meet And he needs to be asked if he is still OK with DADT...

Chef, Thank you for the clarifications and I apologize for the mistake on the age of your child. That being said, I am going to add to what I said to you based on your response. One piece of smart advice I got here was to accept that my old marriage was dead. It died when I repeatedly told sat...

Divorce is off the table. Our 14year wedding anniversary is in 2 weeks. We have a kid, we are generally happy and the sex can be fantastic... I am just not being satisfied in other ways, our love languages are different, Emotionally and kinkily. And yes being his other half can be such a lonely...

Dgmon You can read my posts if you want to for any questions you may have, but this is about YOU , not me. You are not my husband, do not look like him, do not think like him, etc. Yes there are some similarities but more differences, one big one that you are not married with children for...

The others have given you good advice, which is to end this relationship and go your separate ways. I told her that I may be open to the idea of her having sex with other men, if I had another girlfriend. My rationale here is that if I’m not committed 100% to her, and dedicating all my energy...

Ana, You have a couple of problems here. First, you now have a boyfriend living with you that you have it appears no sex life with but whom you have feelings for, but it seems as a “friend” and companion. Nothing wrong with a male friend and confident but why are you wanting to have him as...

On a happier note. Our new doggy is doing fine. One little dust up with one of the Irish girls but not a major issue. Still being careful. Leaving Thursday for Texas to Final Four this week end. Hero has business associates who got us seats . Thats all I know but Hero is a happy camper. Once...

Open, I suggest you do some real reading. No one here can predict how your situation will turn out, but there are very few professionals or "experts" on open/poly/swinging who will tell you that the best chances for success are with two strong partners in a well anchored marriage. i am sure you...

Al. Thanks for your input. Also - in regard to what positions, orifices, etc - again, as you stated, sex is sex. I've always though of negotiated poly restrictions on what sexual activities were allowed with secondary partners was just kind of silly. Aside from the obvious fact that the...

Exactly. Comparing the united States to Sweden or Norway or countries with a small portion of our population is like saying to treat a great Dane like a Toy Poodle, ludicrous. If you like your doctor you can keep your doctor. Heard that bull shit ad nauseum

Just reading what you wrote seems pretty clear that at the PRESENT moment while you both are very interested in opening your marriage, the stated goals and desires out of it appear to be quite different, pretty much the opposite. And not unusual for the two genders to look at it a bit...

Thanks Power We have access to all sorts of “specialists “ for dogs in our area. Everything from internists to oncologists to neurologists for dogs. We have four other dogs now , all Irish Setters , and our new baby will get the executive vet treatment . Appreciate your thoughts. Since Hero is...

But remember, polyamory is a brand new form of relationshipping, brought about by the women's movement. Women are demanding they have the autonomy to relate to others as independent humans, not as the property of ONE MAN (first father, then husband) who allows or does not allow them to make...

Well, my husband has just given me a wonderful surprise. I have always wanted to rescue a greyhound that had been discarded because it could not win races any more and Hero brought one home. I cried my eyes out. She is so beautiful and gentle and so far gets along great with the other dogs. And...

Jay I'm going to chime in once more here and Dinged just gave you some good advice and brought up two points you need to really think about. There is nothing quantitatively scientific about your situation. Your wife likes sex with BOTH men and women and has proven that recently with her...

Wow does time fly. It's been now almost seven months since my what I call "slut phase" ended, and for the most part we have done well considering. Weathered the Holiday season, and other than the little blow up over Valentines Day that I posted about on the forum, we are functioning. I have...

But taking the wider view, these anecdotes are not the norm. I suspect that to have a healthy separation my wife and I would require distance from each other, which is inherently inconsistent with any form of pro-active co-parenting. It is clear from my posts that I can't cope with her being...

[/B] Gala, He has calmed down. In fact, he actually apologized for going bonkers. Friday, he texted me to put something real nice on and that i would be picked up in limo since he had to work a little late. Took me to beautiful restaurant and then home for a marathon "sexy time" night. Also...