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Nonentity "I did what you are talking about doing, but not without much ".persuading". So the first obvious question is WHO is the initiator and are you BOTH on the same page. After that, lets start with that you are both unique individuals and how someones blog or their opinion is not going...

You ought to read the above again. You can pretty well be guaranteed that if this is forced down your throat like fois gras and you grudgingly go along with it that your chances of divorce are going to go through the roof. Get it straight. Despite what some here think, the overwhelming...

My question is Mr. Ponytail prepared and able to support this kid he wants and are you for 18 years should your relationship not last??? hats the first question that should be asked and answered decidedly before anyone starts talking about bringing another life into this world.

Miket, i would not let yourself get beat up by this "one penis policy" crap. Your wife and you entered into this poly lifestyle based on her wanting to and agreeing to her also being with other women. From what you have written there was NEVER serious discussion of another man entering the...

Claire, You’re way ahead of yourself . Before you have to worry about a year from now you need to worry about the immediate future. (1) when is the decision on when or if she is moving to Texas being made (2) when does Castle put the cards, all of them on the table with wifey. If she doesn’t...

Down South, I’m going to tell you something because it seems so many men in your position are totally naive. It amazes me. You are talking about your wife or gf having a sexual relationship with girls as well as you. OK, great. So that means she is open to both sexes, and guess what??? So will...

Halloween is the one year anniversary of my first chemo infusion. __________________ And hopefully no more ever again. You have a really upbeat outlook that I believe has helped you overcome a lot of shit. it's great.

Seeking validation based on your looks is a hard thing to stop. After all, that's probably one of the qualities Hero liked about you! I guess a good guide for you might be this; if Hero was across the room watching you interact with men, would your behavior cause him anxiety? From what you have...

I've had plenty of bfs, even men in the their 20s and 30s, and me in my 50s and 60s, going gaga over my looks and my sexual skills. It's nice... but... It's not enough to live on. Mags, well said. Thanks for the 2 x 4. I needed it. I think I need to search for what I now need to be happy. My...

That is a good question. Why did you feel a need to go out looking like a "hottie," for "fun," and let a man think he had a chance with you for romance or sex? You could have gone out looking attractive without looking... "hot." An appearance which proclaimed, I am looking to get laid. I am...

Claire, I had to laugh a bit when you talked about the men I “dated”. LOL. I really didn’t date like you do. I fucked them period. Closest I came to real involvement was with airline pilot who was LDR who I saw when he had overnights in my city when Hero was not there. But he also was one who...

Well, yesterday I was congratulating myself for my “progress” but today I feel like shit. What is wrong with me?????? I have no friggin boundaries. Instead of congratulating myself for not letting some guy grab my hand and try to make moves on me, I should be asking myself why I let him buy me...

Good advice Claire. I told her, and she knows, that her husband cannot just boot her to the curb with no money nor can he force her immediately out of the house. She just wants to comply right away to get out immediately because she thinks he will change his mind if she does not fight him...

Today was hectic. Gym in the morning, two hours with new therapist in the afternoon, and tonight GNO with my friends. Hero knows I am going and says hes fine with it. He knows after all the past two years and how I never let anyone know or did anything with friends around other than flirt like...

Claire, It's wonderful you have been able to maintain this closeness with Andy and not let all these boyfriends ruin that. I'm not sure how you pull it off. Never was an option for me. I hope Castle turns out to be as committed as you think.

Claire, I have followed your blog and one thing that you have not mentioned is what Castle tells you about what if anything he knows about anything his wife has been doing. Apparently, it appears she agreed to opening the relationship on a DADT basis. I did that but that became impossible to...

Rylerose Not much detail to go on here, but lets start out with the positive aspect, which is that you were communicative with your husband and told him you were bi. So far so good. But that is where the good part ends. So your husband agrees that it is fine for you to explore your bi...

Well, today was the worst. !!! If there is one thing I do not need in my life right now its marital drama with friends, but that is exactly what I got at lunch today. I need to vent. I meet my girlfriend Deena for lunch and she looks like Casper The Ghost, and like she had been crying for...

TMW, So lets start from the beginning of your post. Your husband has gone back and forth like a yo yo on this. First he was OK, then not OK, the he can handle it. Really.??? All that shows is he is totally confused. So here you have a guy who now wants to do it for himself, which you believe...

Awkward In the past 6 months I have voiced what I want out of relationship. And the effect was many men saying they were aligned...then still ghosting me. That should not surprise you. Men will say anything you want to hear to get in your pants. And the simple fact is most men are going to...