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Yes, he was ok to open the relationship for a while to get my needs met. He doesn’t want going on long term. It’s hurting him a great deal that he can’t give me what I need. I can see that it’s breaking him. My bf and I are compatible on many levels. However on certain things we aren’t and he...

He has cerebral palsy so he can’t really work on his health or get in shape. He’s thought about going to physical therapy to see if that might help. We have tried many things but the only one sexual position that seems to work is me on top. He can’t physically do others due to his muscle...

Here we are again with DH wanting this to close. I’m extremely upset as he’s gone and talked to my friend that i’ve confided in the past. My friend never once was mean or unsupportive to me. Once I read the messages that her and my husband were saying about me it was clear she had a different...

He wants monogamy 1:1. He doesn’t want to leave me, that’s not an option for him. We have two kids a 7yr old and a 2yr old. My family mean the world to me so I can’t see myself cutting my husband loose. The only options I see is that I carry on my relationship with my bf and my husband suffers...

No he hasn’t given me an ultimatum. He just wishes it would end and he feels guilty that he ever said yes to opening the marriage. He doesn’t want to share me anymore. He hasn’t looked for anyone. I have encouraged him but he’s decided I am the only one for him. He’s strictly monogamous. I...

After a year of being in an open relationship my husband wants to go back to manogomy. He never found someone outside of us and decided he and will always be monogamous. I’m in a relationship and do love my bf but don’t know what to do. I feel selfish for wanting an outside relationship I’m...

Boyfriend picks me up and drops me off. Oh yeah he definitely gets off by the whole thing. He’s asked me to go over without panties before or to take sexy pictures and send them to my boyfriend. He knows he’s doing it as he says sometimes I feel I push you towards him. Yes! Working on getting...

I don't leave until I know both kids are sleeping. Going over to my boyfriends has also been a timeout away from the house and kids. I'm a stay at home mom and don't drive. So I'm always home! Being able to get away even for a few hours to decompress saves my sanity. My husband has his time...

So little backstory there... he is my husbands friend I met him when I first met my husband 15 years ago. It's never been a secret that we've found each other attractive. Before we were married we all nearly had a threesome together. I think this is one of the reasons why my husband was...

This is what I’m internally struggling with. If my husband truly is not ok with this I need to make a decision on what to do. I would go back to my husband and try and work things out. It’s easy to say end the relationship with my bf and go back to monogamy. It’s extremely hard for me now that I...

Thanks Kevin! I’m trying to work through it with him. I feel very torn and of course I don’t want to choose. He asked me “why I have to have sex with him” clearly he’s having issues with the sexual side of things. Mainly it’s a moral issue for him. He said he believes that should be for the...

Thanks! Yes, I have suggested a marriage counselor. I will look more into that. He runs more hot when it becomes more sexual for us. I’ll come home from my bfs and he knows i’ve Had sex with him. He finds that hot then we have some great sex. But then the more time I spend time with my...

I’ve been in my Poly relationship for about 9 month now. The man is a good friend of my husband’s, one i’ve known for a while. Feelings have grown and we care/love each other. We’ve all been spending time together he’s also been spending time with my husband. My husband wants me to stop my...

This 100% for me also! My BF and I just told each other we love each other! It’s a wonderful feeling! I am amazed at how open my DH has been, my love for him has grown and has become so much stronger. My DH and I have been more intimate. Its working and we are all very happy with how things have...

Thanks for the welcome and helpful links Kevin! I think my husband is comfortable just seeing where things go. He doesn’t want to put a time frame to it or look too long term. I agree with taking it slow and communicating a lot.

Trattoria 6800 Thanks Sunray, Me and my bf would actually like to keep this going long term. My husband however did communicate with me that he thought it might be a short fling for me to get what I need. I’ve only ever been with him sexually and he has a physical handicap. He understands my...

I’m not sure where to begin really. I’m fairly new to poly. My husband and I have been married for 13yrs and we’ve been mono for those yrs we have two kids. My husband has this friend that we’ve both know since before we were married. There has always been an attraction between us to the point...