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Unfortunately, right now, I can't afford one. I have a friend who is trying to help me in that area and if I end up going with my plan to relocate to Virginia, I have a couple of options. Unfortunately, if it comes down to that, I don't see it turning out well for me. I doubt she will try to...

Magdlyn, I am so sorry! I didn't mean to come off as defensive, but going back and reading my post, it does seem like I was. For that I apologize. You are correct in saying that I have been away a lot. I left home in December of 2006 and I haven't spent more than 22 month in the States since...

Ok, so, first of all, I have been in the Army for two decades, but I haven't been away for two decades. Yes, I have spent a ton of time away from home since 2007, but I have had the opportunity to sleep in my own bed and live with my family. I have done my best to be a good Husband, father and...

I will address both of these points. First, no she has no experience. She and I used to do a little impact play. She had a brief encounter with some folks in the community in Denver about a year or so ago. But she has never been a sub. In fact, until all this cyber stuff began, she said that she...

The weekend Last night, I gave her the opportunity to leave. After a tough day at work, I expected her to come home a little down and tired. If I haven't said so already, she is a veterinary technician. Yesterday she had to do two euthanasias; the only aspect of her job that she does not...

On of my proudest achievements as a father is that my children barely ever play video games! LOL. My daughter reads actual books and my son prefers to play outside or do arts and crafts. But you are, indeed, very close. My daughter, who is 15, is no idiot and knows that something is going on...

Wow! WOW! Thank you all for your advice, support and kind words! It is crazy that a bunch of folks on the internet are more interested in my well-being than my own wife! There are so many posts that I don't know if I can address everything that was brought up. Here is where things stand now...

Tinwen, the short version-- On Monday night, my wife was given a task to give me a blow job, and record it, and after it was done, to tell me that from that point on, I would have to ask permission from her dom if I wanted to have sex with her. She had requested that I not have any contact with...

I hate this So after a long day on Tuesday of being the bigger person, things broke down. On Tuesday night, my wife, as instructed by her dom, sat down with me and showed me her list of rules. She also asked if she could see the conversation that Kip and I had. I had nothing to hide and was not...

It's interesting, to say the least. He is being a little passive-aggressive. He is trying to rush me into an agreement. We have given each other one concession, and now he is expecting that I will accept everything that he wants. I just asked him what I get if I allow this power exchange. He...

Phoenix, thank you for sharing your story. I think that is exactly where my wife is, at least right now. I am 100% ok with being submissive to my wife, but not to her Dom. I may be on the verge of working this out.

First, I appreciate your advice. Second, I have not been very explicit about what I have been doing. I have certainly stepped up my game and continue to do so. As far as the Dom, what would you suggest? I think (if you read my last post) that texting that I do not consent for her to send out a...

Update Interesting things have happened. During last evening's activities, I was made to take a video of my wife in the act. This morning she said something that made me suspect that this whole thing was a task she had been given. While driving my son to school, it occurred to me that the video...

I'm not there yet. I don't want to hear the answer. Plus, with all the times it has been said (as recently as last month, in fact) I can't trust that that is truly how she feels. But most importantly, I'm not there yet. I think that for all her life she has been looking for the storybook...

Well it looks like things my be progressing as I have feared. Last night, for all intents and purposes, I lost my primary status. TMI ALERT!!!! Yesterday morning, while she was getting ready for work, I decided to surprise my wife with a little bit of oral pleasure. It is one thing that I know...

Aussiekate, I always loved working with you guys. I was also very jealous of your uniforms with shorts! No, I don't lump you into that group I mentioned. Those people are quick to criticize if someone isn't doing this thing their way and they rarely offer good advice. The advice you gave me is...

Galagirl, I think she is going to leave me.

powerpuffgrl, thank you! It is very nice to consider that there has been more good advice than bad on this forum. On every other poly forum or group I've been on, I have been told that I am basically wrong for having any negative emotions, and that I am evil because I am trying to enslave my...

Survived the weekend Well, it was a pretty good weekend. There seemed to be a little more attention coming my way. That was nice. We also had a nice day with the kids on Sunday. I still feel like my days as a husband are limited, but at least we had a good couple of days as a family. I look...

Its tough when you start to believe that you don't have a shot. When you begin to think that there is no way to play against a deck that is stacked against you. It makes you want to give up. It makes you want to cut your losses. It makes you want to quit fighting. Even though everything that you...