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  1. Rarechild

    New, with new feelings... HELP

    PS I see what the others are saying about your dart partner Amber, but she's going to have to concentrate on the issues this raises for her right now. I didn't mean to indicate that she was unimportant by omitting her, but I stand by creating space here. You seem to be doing a fine job being...
  2. Rarechild

    New, with new feelings... HELP

    If it were me, I'd be mighty pissed. I'd try to step off for at least a week, most probably more. Just you watch what a week does to turn the lesson around, as all parties get a minute to work their shit out. Sorry, man. Jolene needs you as a friend right now. Focus on helping her, I'd say...
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    New, with new feelings... HELP

    Sorry to hear it 'bob. You have people here willing to listen if you want to say more, maybe help you find a silver lining.
  4. Rarechild

    Aagh!

    Good luck, man. Management sucks sometimes but that's show business for you. :)
  5. Rarechild

    Family - The Web Series.

    I am unimpressed with this series. But good effort- just really bad acting and wrtiting.:)
  6. Rarechild

    Avena's blog

    Thanks for sharing :)
  7. Rarechild

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Mono, Man, I was always curious. What a moniker! And a weird foray into the inner-workings of your mind... Ooohhh;)
  8. Rarechild

    Here we go again.

    aha! Been missing you around here, dear. I hope all is well in your head space, and best of luck with your book- I am already a big fan if your writing on here is any indication, and I'm sure its not even the tip of the iceberg. Do let us know when and where we can rush out to get a copy when...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    My handle Cool to hear these explanations. Thanks RP, good one. Mine is a nickname from childhood given me by my dad derived from my name-Rachel. He has a "special" sense of humor and was not about to call me something as unsatisfying as "Rach" that could not be said in an ironic tone of voice. :)
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    Honesty and Openess

    Bleh.
  11. Rarechild

    Quest for SysOp or exper Moderator maybe?

    Research Your posts do come off as having a hidden agenda. Perhaps it's just the way you think and what you're thinking about, but so far it's not really been about poly, and you have assumed the position of moderator- I have to agree w/Ceoli on that one. Man, (or whatever, you come off as a...
  12. Rarechild

    Old Crow Medicine Show!!! Tonight!

    Any body know about these awesome guys?! I get to go see them for the second time tonight!! They are coming to play a show in my own little hamlet, Kalamazoo, MI. At least 5 friends I know of will be there to dance the night away with D and I. Yay! If you've not listened to their music, and you...
  13. Rarechild

    Victory

    This feels so much better than "fuck you, then!" or "it's your loss". You all have had a great impact on this Rarechild. I can't tell you how much all your advice and support has meant to me. I hope someday I get to hug some of you and say thanks in real life.
  14. Rarechild

    Victory

    Happy Beginning From my journal last night: Amazing. Here is more evidence that letting go leads to beginnings, that saying how you feel, even while cringing from the blow you are delivering yourself in someone’s honor has rewards. Immediate rewards this time. When I wrote you yesterday...
  15. Rarechild

    Victory

    **welling up** thanks so much, friends.
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    Victory

    I had a little personal victory yesterday that I'd like to share. I have a friend that I was going to go see in a few weeks- we met in July while I was on vacation and have shared something very special ever since. We had finally agreed on a plan to re-meet and were both excited and nervous...
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    The Downside of self Discovery

    Lovely to witness Don't you love it when that happens!! I frequently find little parts of the "answer" when expressing myself to others. It is so true what you said about self-discovery - it's hard to separate internal and external motivations sometimes, but yes, I believe it's all there...
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    HPV - Shouldn't we talk about it?

    Right back at you, L-$ I love that you concentrated on supporting me when you were doing the very same thing. That was truly some loving radiance.Thank you. I needed that today. Thanks for sharing your story too- I am really encouraged by your success in managing and containing the disease...
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