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Oh, my Yes, you have written about her, haven't you? Thank you for overflowing into the life of my family. I know how it is to be so filled with joy that it is imperative to give it away free to anyone who crosses your path. I have been thinking to myself all day, "Love does not seek for...

Unfortunately, this "anything gay" many times includes all of the wonders of the prostate as well. This is tragic to me, that many men ignore such a rich source of pleasure in their own bodies, because they associate this with the above mentioned training. It is so taboo that many men are not...

Hullo Just feel like saying hello today. Hi poly people! Since I am not on the computer doing homework every night, some days I don't get online at all. That has been refreshing. I got to spend a night at the retreat center I go to on Mother's Day, after being out till 4 at a bachelorette party...

Happy Day to me I am taking a break from energetically cleaning the house. Tonight is my graduation party and tomorrow is my graduation. I was not supposed to find out about the party but am evil and did anyway. After a beautiful morning with Catfish, who scurried off to do secret things, I...

Good one. A thinking question. :) -R

I dislike the term NRE, but that doesn't sound like what I take it to mean when others use it. That sounds like waffling. Yes, being in love must be mutual to not just feel like heartbreak. What were your dating rules? The one you mentioned sounds solid. NO. Never. I want to say to you that...

Cricket and Karma, Sending along a hug in this rough time for you and your loved ones. Cricket-sad to see you go off the forum, but totally understand the need for distance to prevent ugliness-I think that's smart. Speaking as a member only, not a moderator, I think your last post was going...

That's what I'm talking about right there. In fact was just now talking about it with Catfish. -R

Listen to the musn'ts, child Listen to the don'ts Listen to the shouldn'ts, the impossibles, the won'ts Listen to the never haves Then listen close to me; Anything can happen, child Anything can be -Shel Silverstein

Oh, snap. You just made my day, Carma. :) -R

Dammit Koi, I am so sorry this secret-informer outing, judging bullshit is happening to you. The fellas and I were joking this week about making a special announcement onstage at my upcoming graduation about our relationships, since lots of our peeps will be there. The context there is just...

"poly couples"= oxymoron. :)

Communication Bully I'm going to take it a step further. I've been thinking a lot over the past few days and feeling relief because of something that Charlie taught me: The ultimate safety in communication that actually leads to consensus/closeness/problem solving is agreeing that it's okay to...

How in the fuck did I miss this two days ago? Am I to understand that I can draw something, write it, dream about it and learn the way of doing it, and then it will happen? This is the most lovely insanity I have ever heard of. Awestruck. -R

I remember Love this one. I wish they could hear him say it. -R

That's fucking great, Penny. Wowza. Sounds very joyful. I am truly happy for you and your loves to have come to such an intimate place between the three of you. It makes me happy just to know that such a thing could exist. I would say "lucky you," but we all know this has nothing to do with...

Thank you Thank you for the responses. Just getting my thoughts down and discussing them with my lovelies has helped me feel more like I'm standing on solid ground. I appreciate the non-judgemental empathy that I always get from forum friends when I lay out my heart here. At the same time I...

ok, so it's hard sometimes Recently I have felt my strength in all of this sapped at times. My indomitable resolve to be secure in my feelings and actions regardless of how hard it is to navigate two very intense and monumental loves in my life has been tested. I have really started to feel...

There have been and are people in my life that I recognize on sight and remember, though I am meeting them for the first time. I have no religion, but this makes me think I've been here before, and find my familiars again and again. I am fortunate enough to have two such people in close league...

Thanks for mentioning all that about the sheets. That's real attractive. But seriously, thank you for taking care of me. -R