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  1. Rarechild

    The Rare Life

    Watch the fuck out I am charmed to my soul. Powerful majic comes at me in waves, like when you’re in a dream, watching it all go down, and knowing the story has been birthed from the deepest regions of your consciousness. In awe but holding steady as you watch the world change colors. I am so...
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    Where will we end up?

    LR, I am sorry to hear it's so hard right now. Hugs to you, lovely lady.
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    Modular RC

    Ha! I know that but you forgot to mention that she's hilarious. Major point of this silly thread- Mods make decisions together, so any shit you want to throw at NK or any of the others you might as well throw at me or Olivier, even though you don't see us post often. When I first joined, I...
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    Modular RC

    I love how nobody gives a rat's ass about my criticism thread! :) :) :) Have I been that under the radar? I think I need to go sit in a corner and reconsider my priorities.
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    Modular RC

    Yeah, I didn't really think my thread would be as "popular" as NK's and I certainly didn't mean to make this an administrative thread. I just wanted to address everybody and say yes, I am here participating even though I'm rarely the one who communicates to the group. Solidarity and all. (Again...
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    Modular RC

    Inspired mightily by NeonK's criticism thread, I will make one of my own as the sneaky, all but silent mod comparatively. It's funny to me the wording of "some", "all", or "other" in reference to mod actions. Think of it as a labor union. Motions must be seconded and are sometimes treated with...
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    Female, bi, married to straight male (Catfish)
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    mono-poly spectrum?

    Tis moved, and yes, you have to ask a mod, I just happened upon it this time. -R
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    Looking for Interviews with Polyamorous Women

    Jeesh People! You must to delimit to conduct research. That is how research works! You can't do research without setting parameters or else it's meaningless and has no context. Livingmybestlife- no one said it was a "random sample", and "queer" is a widely accepted positive term, at least...
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    My story...

    Hey Greg, I'm wondering why you chose to share your story on this particular forum. Is there some aspect of polyamory in your situation? I'm sorry for your pain and glad you're seeking help to overcome your destructive behavior. -R
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    Help me find the right words

    Clarifying Tp- I don't know why I said somber. Weird word. I was thinking about laughter and spontaneity and how it's harder to break routines that have had time to develop. I was thinking about how easy it is to have fun with someone who isn't aware of all your ups and downs, where there...
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    Help me find the right words

    Tickle him. I don't think the main thing is to explain the laughter. That'll just make it stop altogether. The important thing is to explain how much you love Indigo, and it sounds like this needs to be accompanied by you paying some rapt attention to him. Reading your post, it sounds like...
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    Not sure if this is polyamory or just voyeurism

    Hmm Neon, If you really want me to, I can berate you via PM. ;) But let's focus on the OP's kinks for now, shall we? I admit I had to skip through some of the original post because it was really graphic, and definitely a fantasy. I wondered if you were just on here jerking off. Have you ever...
  14. Rarechild

    Learning who i am

    Shout out I am in W. Michigan too. We are out there! Feel free to msg me if you want to talk and welcome to the boards.
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    How do your friends describe you to others?

    I had an interesting conversation with a man I met today who shares a mutual friend with me. Apparently he has "heard things" about me previous to us meeting and took all day (hanging around while my friend and I did a canning project) to come out with the questions he had for me about these...
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    Hello from P-town

    Welcome hey there, welcome to the boards. When I saw P-town I thought Provincetown,Massuachusetts, but you are from Illinois? Are you on a visit or are you speaking of some other town? Anyway, I hope you find what you need on here. -R
  17. Rarechild

    Discussion on Forum Sociology and Interpersonal Dynamics

    I know that implication wasn't really there. The whole thing just struck me the wrong way, and I meant to emphasize the limitations of moderation and the reality (my view of reality) that a complaint about free exchange and discrimination not backed by action is tinny at best. We are not running...
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    Discussion on Forum Sociology and Interpersonal Dynamics

    Just a little heavy on the brand names. I am jaded, I admit, but it bothers me to talk about the structure of our forum in relation to search engines. A reality for sure, but creepy when making a case for a community. All mods, including myself, do not benefit from search engine rankings. We...
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    Discussion on Forum Sociology and Interpersonal Dynamics

    I have been very quiet as of late due to my busy schedule this summer. I do get on the site everyday and do mod stuff if needed. I have time to read 2-3 new threads/posts. I look for sneaky spam to zap while skimming through the rest of it. The mods discuss stuff off-forum, every message that...
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    Childfree (and poly)

    I sure am glad to be without any children at this point in my life, and have had experiences that put me face to face with parenthood, so no, I'm not child-free. I am, however, grateful to have done my worst bumbling around with life (I hope) without the responsibility of caring for and shaping...
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