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I log in here almost every day, but seldom have time to stay long or post. Just wanted to say hello to my friends out there, and say that I enjoy reading your posts, and have not fallen off the face of the earth. :) -R

Hi back-been busy lately. I had a cassette tape when I was a kid of Shel Silverstein reading the entire book, "Where the Sidewalk Ends". Of course I had my own copy, and would read along. Thank you for making me think about why I love that poem; it was one of my first magical experiences with...

Gah! William Hung: way more effective than a cold shower. :) Y'all are spicy.

There's one pic of a necklace I gave Catfish for Christmas in my metalwork photos- I'll be sure to post pictures of anything else I make along poly lines. :)

Thanks, nice people! :) No worries- it's all sorted out. As I said to you all in PMs- this is the toughest rule to enforce and many times we mods get arguments about this rule because it's the norm to post links everywhere else. I truly appreciate the cooperation from all of you. It makes my...

Under moderation Because of commercial links posted in this thread. I know the intention was good, but I have locked the thread in order to discuss it with the other mods before editing. PLEEEZE do not post commercial links. Mention a company you like, sure, but don't link it. People are more...

Is anybody in this on the boards? Of course I ask not really expecting an answer because of possible privacy issues, but I'm curious. I thought it was well done for the most part, and found it especially interesting how much footage of mundane activities like taking out the trash and...

Hello and thanks for your story This thread has given me a lot to think about, so thanks for that. While our situations are not quite the same, you have given me insight on how my husband may be feeling about a lady in our lives. He, like you, is supportive of my relationship with her, but it...

Not derailing :) I shouldn't have even said that, sorry Danny. I was referring to the duration of the distress and the lame excuses it seemed you were defending. Re-reading, and having made my point in my post, I retract it.

I love it! Permission to pull that phrase out when I'm backed into a corner. :)

Not buying it Danny, I found it a little incongruous to read that last post of yours and then your tag line, which discourages excuses for not living every day as if it were your last. Of course no one on here knows the full situation of anyone posting, but what I respond to, Cori, if you...

I had two thoughts while reading your OP: Not feeling good enough did not start with your current relationship, so look out for ghosts, here. and The only way to get the victory over fear is to charge at it and walk right through it. This is usually painful, but will help you find the truth...

Frieda How about "Freida" about the life of Frieda Kahlo and Diego Rivera. They were not polyamorous, but they sure had many loves outside of their marriage. I friggin love Selma Hayek in this role. Another true story along the same lines I can think of is "Henry and June" based on the...

I think lying and willful omission are painful because they imply that the person you are keeping something from is unable to handle you or the situation. If you don't allow the truth about yourself to be known, you can't hope for another person to understand or support you. When you make a...

sorry Sorry T- yeah Divxden is fucking annoying- I have popup blockers on and other security stuff so it didn't hurt me, but I'm sorry you got burned. As the link poster-warning- this site will try to throw up all kinds of shit on you- proceed with caution or just look it up for yourself-it's...

yup I'm going to second that. We are not in the habit of deleting threads on here because that would mean erasing everyone's words, not just yours, and besides, someone else may read this and benefit from it, as you have benefited from discussing it. If you are still worried about your...

I know this link is ugly, and if it doesn't work out for you, try Hulu in a couple of days and they should have it posted there. I watched this episode last night and thought it interesting that open marriage was so central to the show. If you are familiar with House, you know that it is a show...

I think the bulk of the cynicism is directed more at the refusal of many monogamous people to admit or consider the implications of the fact that we are all attracted to many people. It's not so much that they choose to be monogamous, which I respect fully, it's the people that act as if telling...

:) Women are so much more work! Seriously, though (OK, I was being serious before) RP, Enjoy your abundance of love and be careful not to lose sight of the fact that you are so well-loved that there isn't time enough in a day to drink it all in. I am especially excited for the two of you...

Seconded. You have a great, realistic list there and the right attitude toward creating your own happiness BTW, "chieving" is my new favorite word, Mono! Takes some of the seriousness out of our goals and ambitions, no? HA! -R