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I've been wanting to write to you all about what's been happening w/ Catfish and I for a couple of weeks, but I think I needed to process more with him first before I reached out. The time has come for the the real life test of how I will deal with Catfish having a special relationship with...

To add some of the other side of the picture, in some countries that are still very patriarchal, like Iraq, the men commonly do more than greet with kisses. It is acceptable to regard sex with women as procreation, and sex with men as a good time. ( Got this from my brother-in-law who spent...

Let down. :) I've been reading it "vampire-scammy" like a scammin vampire, and I liked it better that way.:)

What a great christmas subject! My sort non-religion is complicated, but more and more simple really all the time as I peel away layers of what I was taught as a child (what was stuffed down my throat) and decide on a more terrestrial level what values are good for me. I was raised immersed...

Hugs I consider one of my greatest talents to be my ability to hug and hold well, in good times and bad, as I've had many dear friends tell me how much my hugs mean to them. I have a few close friends that I feel very comfortable sleeping in the same bed with, cuddling with, kissing...

I know this is a little lazy, but I'll link you to my opinion on this other thread for that question. Finals and all. :)

OMG!!! Yipee!! Do I really get to be the one to catch "pubically"!!??? HA!

This is an 18 and over website. There are no girls on here if we're doing our job. I find it really hard to respond to the subject you are bringing up when I feel offended by a slight like this from the get-go. Do you understand what I'm saying, little boy? (for demonstration purposes only)...

“All of us know, whether or not we are able to admit it, that mirrors can only lie, that death by drowning is all that awaits one there. It is for this reason that love is so desperately sought and so cunningly avoided. Love takes off the masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we...

Welcome! Since all boundaries and emotions are different, it would help us help you if you gave us some of your concerns and feelings explicitly if you wish to. Members here are great for "listening" and perspective. Welcome again, and all the best to you and yours. -R

Selfish bastard I have always thought selfishness a great word and sacrifice a yukky one. I totally get the selfishness as a virtue- you know, the loving yourself before you love others thing. If you don't build yourself up you have nothing to give. If you don't have what you want you are...

Boggled Sometimes it's amazing how all of the stimulus in my life seems related- interpersonal, school, my work, and sometimes this forum, like now. As I'm sure we all are, I've been getting pretty heavy all over again into finding my own viewpoints clearly as of late, and trying to decide...

What I'm thinking about this week: Nietzche's Overman characteristics in relation to experiences I've had, and people I've known, mainly in the context of writing about my 9 month stint in the French Quarter in New Orleans. I have just started my study of existentialism, so I'm not professing...

This thread makes me happy It's really nice to see the determination on the part of everyone to get these issues worked out. I'm glad you're still around, Mono. This trifecta of threads that we're dealing with here 1 , 2, and this one have seen some really good discussion IMO about...

What up B? Nice to see you back. :)

Thanks for the friendliness. I was a little busy last night and there is so much to be learned just poking around on here. I hope you had a good evening, too, and welcome again to the boards.

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/member.php?u=476 ;) You can view that type of info on people's profiles. There is also a sticky thread about definitions on the main page- I noticed your unicorn question. Also, you can check out the FAQ section or use the search feature to find answers. Welcome!

http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1218 :)

You're getting lots of good questions from the group but I have one thing to add-- If I were you, I would work out these things waay before getting married. You both seem to be so unsure of where your sexual lives are taking you, I'd think making sure you're sexually compatible beforehand is...

Whoa, thanks, woman. No time to write but I can relate to lots of this that happened for me after a physically abusive relationship I played victim in. You are beautiful and amazing- keep digging.