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  1. Emm

    Dumping The Label

    Really? You keep saying you're the only one being objective and that everyone who doesn't agree with you is wrong. That sounds like a textbook example of someone who is trying to be authoritative. When were you banned? You have a total of 3 expired infraction points, which wouldn't have caused a...
  2. Emm

    Dumping The Label

    And yet you continually go looking for them. If you no longer identify as poly then you have no horse in the race and can safely stop. Continuing to do so looks a lot like trolling, which I need not remind you is against the rules here. If you want I can take a look at your user settings and...
  3. Emm

    Dumping The Label

    You certainly have strong opinions on the matter, so it is fortunate that you've decided to rebrand yourself and leave the poly label for the rest of us.
  4. Emm

    Confused

    Overzealous spam-removal strikes again! The OP should be unbanned again soon.
  5. Emm

    Sports metaphor for Poly that may amuse or come in handy...

    I usually use soccer vs rugby, but thinking about it, basketball is better because it's so completely not even mildly similar.
  6. Emm

    Non-escalator relationships

    I'm a little unclear about where the escalator comes into it at all.
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    Poly webcomic - Kimchee Cuddles

    How had I never come across the Kimchee Cuddles webcomic before??!? Someone posted a link on Facebook this morning, and I (eventually... I'm up to #400) thought I'd better share it here.
  8. Emm

    Wife Wants Temporary Exclusivity With Boyfriend

    This thread has been locked pending an untangling of the OP's identity.
  9. Emm

    V-triad: One wants Parallel, two want Kitchen Table

    What do you mean when you say "kitchen table poly"? Some people use the term to mean that everyone needs to get along well enough to sit down for a meal together every now and then; others use it to mean cohabitation. I'm sure there are a range of definitions which fit between the two points...
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    Poly issues and the military

    That may be the case in the US, but not everywhere is so puritanical.
  11. Emm

    field lochwynd

    It might help to specify to which country's military your partner belongs. Rules and expectations vary a lot, so advice needs to as well.
  12. Emm

    Figuring out root cause of jealousy

    Are these consecutive or concurrent BFs? If the latter, how does she find enough time in her week to manage a husband, 3 BFs and you all at once? Your jealousy might stem from a fear of losing time with her.
  13. Emm

    Long distance relationship... how do I make it work?

    Well spotted. We've been getting quite a few of these recently.
  14. Emm

    Trouble replying to private messages

    To keep a copy of the PMs you send, go to "Edit Options" in your User CP, and tick the "Save a copy of sent messages in my Sent Items folder by default" box.
  15. Emm

    Letting go of negative opinions

    The mods don't read everything. If you believe something breaks the rules, report the post using the button at the top right-hand corner.
  16. Emm

    Violated ❌❌❌

    Consider yourself a martyr if that makes you feel better, but you are now, without any shadow of a doubt, hijacking this thread. Take it elsewhere.
  17. Emm

    Question about Meta being a Partner

    "Partner" is generally used to mean someone you're sexually and/or romantically involved with.
  18. Emm

    Violated ❌❌❌

    Because not doing it perfectly doesn't mean you're not doing it. Someone who takes a day to recover from running around the block is still running, even if they're not up to Olympic marathon standards. The stumbling blocks you're using as disqualification criteria apply specifically to good...
  19. Emm

    Violated ❌❌❌

    I don't follow your reasoning here. Are you arguing that it's only poly when everyone involved is dating or married to someone else?
  20. Emm

    ⚠️ Important note on spam ⚠️

    For the last month or two, we've been getting a lot of spam with subject lines indicating that it may contain images of child abuse. Recently, a few of them have made it through the spam filters and onto the board in an unmoderated state. While we sweep for spam as often as we can, there is...
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