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I have met MORE people online (okc and tinder - mostly tinder). I have met more COMPATIBLE people at poly meetups.

YOU are responsible for maintaining your own boundaries though. Don't want to hear about their relationship? Leave the room every time he mentions it. Partner is the one disrespecting your boundaries and ignoring your needs in the relationship. Partner is the one allowing his other partner to...

I rarely agree with seasoned, but on this one... While meta's behavior sounds awful, their partner is still choosing to stay in the relationship. Whether it's because they want to or because they've been browbeaten by the abuse, we can't say from a one sided, very clearly angry perspective. Op...

So, Hubby talked to me about the baby thing and... Turns out he does want one? I was VERY careful not to be overly emotional or bitter. He says me being willing to take a permanent step towards prevention was a wake up call. He apparently thought he could have another year or so to decide. Kinda...

My sister had covid despite many negative tests (10ish?). She had a little annoying cough for a couple of weeks then a fever for a few days. Then she had pneumonia (she honestly gets it every year though) that antibiotics couldn't touch. Lasted a few months with covid tests happening weekly and...

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I would just ask. "Hey, I didn't mean to snoop but noticed you have a lot of conversations going when I was on your phone the other day. Is it just new chatty friends or are there potential relationships I should know about? Not a big deal either way, but I feel safer knowing how many others...

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I came here looking for someone mentioning the messy list. I love messy lists. They are EXTREMELY helpful. That said... She could choose to ignore your comfort and do what she wants (especially since you hadn't made a messy list before she admitted feelings). It's reasonable to tell friend that...

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I have booked an appointment to get sterilized. I'm both deeply saddened and relieved by it. I don't want to have kids too far apart. Parenting small ones are exhausting and I can only imagine that it is a different kind of exhausting once they're older. I never wanted to have just one though...

Anytime. If I'm gonna be a creeper and read people's life stories, I may as well be helpful when possible. Lol